Pick-an-Image: Love & Relationships
Take a deep breath, tune into this moment, and use your intuition to choose an image. If you're drawn to more than one, that's okay too. Take what you need, leave the rest... (note that these are intended for an 18+ audience)
I see you alone. Someone is giving you the silent treatment or intentionally creating distance between you. In the silence, you are in reflection mode, feeling deeply and observing these emotions. Likely questions are coming up for you now that you hadn’t even considered before. Discovering the answers to these questions could lead you to an epiphany. There is a serious question here about settling. You’re asking yourself if this relationship could go all the way and become a source of joy again, or if you’re just resigning yourself to it because you’re tired, don’t feel like starting over, or fearing you won’t find another connection that’s as validating. When you view it objectively, the relationship looks good on paper. You may like how you feel receiving attention from this person, how you are viewed with this person, or the idea of completing milestones in life with them. But your intuition is saying something different. You’re losing faith in it. There is something that you are running from. It smells like the truth.
The other person here was broken. They really didn’t want this relationship to fail. They felt shattered for some time, playing and replaying certain conversations and events in their mind. But recently, they’ve chosen to focus on letting go. They can see both the good in the bad in every situation and decided that protecting their peace is the priority at this time. They’ve been scorned but they also have practical matters to tend to. They can’t afford to drop the ball. They know they have deeper healing to do and that it will take time. If this is a marriage, it looks like they will be contacting an attorney soon. Either way, there is some legal matter they are moving forward with now
I see you taking control of your material world. The masculine energy within you is in charge and experiencing a glow up. There are new opportunities coming to you, perhaps because you’ve been on a health journey that has you feeling more confident and drawing more attention to yourself. I can also see you are putting more energy into your career goals, partially to distract from the failed realization of hopes around a relationship you are still clinging to. You are still secretly longing for connection here. It’s like this relationship had you frozen in time at one point, but I see you’ve tapped into that energy and transmuted it into fuel for self-improvement. I definitely see a health and fitness journey here, but it flows into all aspects of your physical reality. This shift is helping you to refocus, so you can finally move forward and heal into the best version of yourself.
This other person lacks trust around the relationship. They now see it as a bridge that’s been burned. They are not open to reconnection at this time; they feel it’s not possible and, overall, they are hopeless about the future of the relationship. Interesting that both parties’ responses are similar. This person was also focused on improving their material reality, but they seem to have hit a wall. It’s like they’ve plateaued. They may have suffered a major material loss on top of the loss of this connection; this sent them spiraling. They have to make up for lost time. This person is not in a position to put attention on this connection as they have to focus on their bounce back.
You’ve found happiness in a love affair with someone you are deeply attracted to. The chemistry between you is undeniable, and the connection, beyond s3x, is mutual, but you are keeping this on the hush. It’s a secret between you both for now. But, boy, is this secret burdensome. One or both of you may be married. If that’s the case you’re obviously very stressed that you will be caught. Otherwise, one or both of you want to avoid outside interference, opinions, and gossip around the connection either because they are high-profile or have a lot of people that are chasing them based on their appeal. This makes you feel a little insecure knowing they’ve got options. I can tell this is stressful because I see you wondering what they are doing when you’re not around. Are they sneaking around with other people? Is that why they want to keep it on the down low? Cooking up stories isn’t going to make anything better. Try to focus on enjoying their company.
This person sees you as an escape from reality. They covet this connection, and they want to protect it. They view you as a flower that they are blessed with the privilege to stop and smell. Outside of your connection with them, they are stuck in an unfulfilling connection. I now have confirmation that this is a third-party situation. This person is entangled with an energy that is cold, bitter, angry, and petty. Though the future of this relationship is unknown, they are committed to enjoying the moments of sweet peace they have with you. They are dreaming about the day that they can capture you and hold onto you forever, to prolong this feeling. They see you as their person, their true match. Needless to say, it’s complicated.
