#relationship blunders

눈치 없는 남자의 특성: 실수와 매력의 경계 (Traits of Clueless Men: The Line Between Blunders and Charm)

Being married to a selfish husband – 5 emotional traumas a wife undergoes

When a wife is married to a selfish husband, she undergoes many emotional traumas. Are you also married to a selfish husband? If so, your married life feels too one-sided to you, as your husband is only concentrated on his own comfort level. He is not bothered about your desires, or wishes. Your husband also does not lift his fingers to help you, in any way. You never in your wildest dream…

10 Alarmingly common relationship issues between couples

There many relationship issues between couples, which threaten to destroy their marital happiness. When relationship issues creep into your married life, you feel unhappy and miserable. You had never dreamed in your wildest dreams that you would face relationship issues with your spouse. You had always dreamt that your married life would be smooth-sailing and peaceful. But you are shocked when…

Relationship problems – 5 traumatic complications

Relationship problems you experience with your spouse, turns your married life unhappy and traumatic for you, doesn’t it? Yes! When there are relationship issues between you and your spouse, you find it impossible to enjoy your married life. It is true that a relationship without complications does not exist for any couple. But when the complications you face in your relationship gets a little…

The top 4 marriage killers -How it digs a grave to the goodness of your relationship?

Most of you are unaware of some of the marriage killers your relationship has inbuilt into it, until it is too late. Your married life becomes complex and trickish when you do not live it the proper way. Your assumption that your marriage will work on its own will be proved wrong, time and again. You wrongly assume that life after your marriage, would always be happy and fulfilled. After all,…

The insensitive relationship mistakes husband commits, knowingly or unknowingly makes his wife feel resentful and frustrated towards him.

Are you one such husband who never truly understands what your wife needs from you?

Do you know this is the worst relationship blunder you make as a husband?

As a man, you never understand the womanly world of your wife.

Her womanly nature makes her feel very…

ur rly sweet but ur v immature & boring and i don't think i can deal with it much longer

except I really love you a lot, you don't even know. I love being with you. You're just boring. Maybe not boring, maybe you're just shy. Or bad with expressing your emotions. Or don't want to let me in because I'm a psycho bitch. But if any of those things are true maybe we aren't good for eachother anyway. And I feel like our relationship is almost entierly physical and that bothers me. What bothers me even more is that you don't even notice. You don't feel the need for a deeper connection than that. You're completely content with just holding my hand and buying me coffee and fucking me on my living room couch. 

I really love all of that, but it would be nice to have a deep mentally stimulating conversation every once in a while. The endless "I love yous" are great. You're sweet. And I believe that you think you love me. I just don't think you know what that word means. You love that I give you compliments and kisses and let you hold me while you watch football at my house. You love the warmpth of human compassion and physical contact. You love the sound of my voice and the way my skin feels. You love not being alone. 

You love being with someone. You love being with anyone. It just so happens that that someone is me. You don't care. It could be me or almost anyone else. You don't give a damn about what goes on in my head. About who I am. You're just afraid of being alone. I'm a warm body to get close to, I'm a voice to tell you you're fabulous when you're doubting yourself- or moping as you always seem to be. 

I love having someone too. It just isn't enough. I don't know what you think about this world. I don't know how your mind works or how you see things or what kinds of jokes you think are funny or what kinds of novels bore you. I wish I did. But every time I ask you about something deeper than school or the weather my question slides back and forth on your perfect lips until it's distorted and diluded and you swim around it in circles and never give me an answer that's more than four words. And so even though I've "known you" since last December I now realize I don't know you at all. 

Maybe this is partially my fault. Because when I'm around people I'm either quiet or I'm rambling on and on about unimportant happenings. And you're so quiet I end up filling the space between us with senseless word vomit. Maybe this makes it hard for you to get a word in. I hope that's what it is. I'll tape my mouth closed next time I see you. Although I don't think that's it. Because on Saturday you asked me when my birthday is. What color I like best. Bands I listen to. And you didn't know any of it at all. Even though I don't stop talking-I don't think you ever hear a word.

I just want to fix this and you're making it next to impossible.

Then again maybe that's because you don't think anything is broken.

All I do know is that I can't leave you. I'd miss you every second. I'd hurt more than I do now. Damned if I do damned if I don't. How did I get into this mess, good god. 

David if you're reading this tell me how to fix it. You know him better than I do. 

xx