#relationalpatterns

AI relationships remove unpredictability—but also something essential. What gets traded away? https://dualisticunity.com/why-some-people-are-dating-ai-and-what-that-reveals-about-us/

When attachment becomes something you “are” instead of something you experience, what flexibility gets lost? https://dualisticunity.com/from-attachment-to-attachment-styles-what-changed-and-what-didnt/

Always being the “understanding” one can feel mature—but what does it quietly cost? https://dualisticunity.com/the-quiet-resentment-that-builds-when-youre-always-the-one-who-understands/

Being “easy” often comes at a cost. What does boundarylessness quietly take from us? https://dualisticunity.com/youre-not-bad-at-boundaries-you-were-conditioned-not-to-have-them/

Some arguments repeat because they’re not about the words being exchanged—but about something that never gets named. What’s actually trying to surface? https://dualisticunity.com/the-repeating-argument-thats-never-really-about-the-argument/

Being “low maintenance” sounds virtuous—but what gets lost when we never ask for anything? https://dualisticunity.com/how-being-low-maintenance-becomes-a-way-to-disappear/