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For the past six months, I've been seeing them often and honestly, I still can't get enough of any of them.

How is it that those gorgeous pair of eyes of hers never fail to mesmerise me?

Why are those lips so tender but seem to be charged with a million volts every time they touch mine?

Don't get me started with those hips of hers. The way they sway as she walks away and peeks behind to try catch a few more seconds of me.

And ohhh that heart of hers, as pure as gold. To the world, it may not be the softest, but trust me guys, it's jello in there. Oh-so-jello-y.

Although it may not show, it pains me not to catch a glimpse of her everyday. I never fail to flip open my wallet to secretly smile at a poloroid of her, standing there giving me the sweetest smile ever. Colors my dark sky any day!

The things she does for me, that no one else would do. Better get comfy guys, gonna be quite a list!

She came down all the way from her work place, which is far in the east, to the west, just to accompany me to pick my laptop up because I said that I wasn't wearing my contacts so I couldn't see for nuts. And little miss hero says, "Don't worry baby, I'll be your eyes!"

And that darling little thing was watching out for me, look at signs to figure out how to get to the place since, we've never been there before and she isn't that great with directions. But still, that didn't stop her! I was still trying to figure my way out (you know men, how they hate asking for directions till they give up) when she ran up to a stranger to ask for directions to the building and then kindly thanking that person. Adorable. You guys might think I'm exaggerating, but I'm not. You should have been there! 

Here's another one! When I was pissed at something, which I don't quite recall (just remember myself being quite agitated at something particular, which I usually don't) she went to the grocery store to pick up a bag of sour gummi bears for me! Because she knew that would cheer me up! Talk about knowing what to do at the right time!

I could keep going on and on and it'll turn into a thesis on why this girl's amazing and I'm the luckiest guy on Earth. But I shall not torture you, my dear readers. But I just want you all to know that, she's the best damn thing that's happened to me. And these past six months we've been through, I've never felt so alive, ever.

I just want to tell you that I love you sweetie, always and forever.

Happy sixth!

 x and o's,

What is the ozone layer?

"The ozone layer is a deep layer in the stratosphere, encircling the Earth, that has large amounts of ozone in it. The layer shields the entire Earth from much of the harmful ultraviolet radiation that comes from the sun. "

Okay, so what if that definition made us feel like a pair of super-genius scientists? WE AWESOME!

What's the ozone layer we're talking about? This, my friends, is exactly what a 'comfort zone' does. Go ahead, go re-read that definition. 'The layer shields the entire Earth from much of the harmful ultraviolet radiation that comes from the sun' 

Okay so here's the breakdown:

Shields, because you two love birds just started going out with one another, your shields tend to be slightly lowered, still afraid to lower your guard completely and let them in, well in this context, letting them in would be, Earth. They'd get to Earth if your shields, aka ozone layer, is down.

Earth, this is where all your true thoughts and feelings are at. If you've been in past relationships that haven't exactly gone great, you'd want to protect Earth as much as possible to prevent the cycle of pain and suffering to repeat itself.

Harmful radiation, is all the criticism, the hurt, morale crushers, confidence breakers, freedom with a lid on it, and fear at it's best. These are the things that let your emotions spiral downwards leaving you trying to frantically claw at anything that could save you. These are the things that let tears, waterfall off your face and make puddles that soak your shoes.

Now here's the thing. What if you let down your shields and allowed that special someone into the gap of your ozone layer? You trust this person, you see the future with them, you see everything with them. It was as if you've been enlightened.

How did that person do that? Well, all those letters that made your heart melt, all those surprises that left you speechless, sweet nothings that were said all throughout the day, and of course, trying to spend every waking moment together.

So now you're getting real comfortable with one another. You share your secrets, your past experiences, heck you share everything together. But what if it seems as though they're so comfortable now that, all the things they did to try get past your shields, slowly started to become less frequent.

How would you feel? Would you feel like they love you less? Would it feel like your relationship's gonna start getting rocky? Would you feel like you're trying too hard to get their attention?

Let us do the honor of enlightening you, stop thinking so much. If the relationship means so much to you, talk about it. Communicate. Don't you EVER, underestimate the power of communication.

It helps you and your love bird to talk about anything. I mean, you guys are so comfortable with each other anyway, you should be able to share everything! These problems you're facing now, should not be a problem if the two of you are working hand-in-hand. Nothing can stop you, okay not literally, but it would definitely feel like you two are an unstoppable duo. So if you feel like it's getting too comfortable and some things don't feel right, talk about it. Not through texts, please in heaven's name, no. Talk to them face to face. You'll be able to better understand, when you can see facial expressions and listen to the tones they use, to figure out how the situation could be handled.

And if you two ever get mad, don't get mad at the person, be furious at the situation. At the end of the day, the two of you should still be madly in love, trying to tackle one problem at a time.