#rad leaning

Something that will never cease to amaze me is how greedy and entitled male sexuality is. Even with the copious amounts of various types of p0rn (no matter how depraved) and other similar content that exist to satisfy their repulsive urges, even though nearly form of media has catered to their fantasies for decades, they still: complain when literally any female character or celebrity doesn’t live up to their disgusting jerk off material standards, insult and degrade any random, every day woman completely unprovoked when they don’t live up to their disgusting jerk off material standards (yet also do the same to those that do), and watch p0rn and cheat while their wife/gf is: pregnant, postpartum, sick, grieving, older, depressed, etc. I’m sure that I’m missing many more.

I don’t care if a woman is amongst the worst human beings to walk this earth, if you believe that writing or imagining rape and sexually violent fantasies is an acceptable response to their actions you should stay far away from women. I don’t care if they’re transgender-exclusive, I don’t care if they’re conservative, I don’t care if they’re a criminal. Your fantasies reflect what you’re capable of thinking about all women.

After remembering "A Room of One's Own", which I read ages ago, it occurred to me that every woman should have her own room. This room shouldn’t be a shared space—not the living room, kitchen, or bathroom. She should always have access to it and the right to lock herself inside. This applies to married women (regardless of their spouse’s sex) too. I know the practice of having "your own bedroom" with "shared bedroom" can be expensive, but it seems crucial to me that a woman always has the option to retreat to a place where she feels safe—her own room