The male 'friendzone' This just needs to be said, if you don't like hearing it feel free to stop reading it. Dear boys in 'the friendzone', shut the fuck up. Seriously quit your bitching, the girl you like doesn't like you, okay that sucks ass, we've all been there, DEAL WITH IT. I understand how bad it can suck and how much it can hurt when the person you are crushing on or have fallen for doesn't feel the same but it happens, it happens to girls all the time with the boys that they like and we all know how much it crushes self esteem but it is not the end of the world, stop following her around like an injured stray dog and guilt tripping her about something she shouldn't have to feel sorry for, your being a jerk, it doesn't matter how nice a guy you think you are or how romantic you think you could be if you are making someone feel like shit for not sharing your feelings then you sir and an ass, simple as that. Further more, you are only making yourself seem more pathetic by posting about "Friendzoned again no surprise there", "Why won't girls give me a chance?", "Doesn't she see how bad I'm hurting? How could she be so heartless?" STOOOOOOOOOPPPPP. Nobody cares, yes people care that you are upset but really they just want you to stop being a whiny fucker and deal with YOUR issues before trying to force someone else into your life to be the MAGICAL SOLUTION TO ALL LIFE'S PROBLEMS. "I'm a nice guy and I treat girls right so why do they always go for assholes?", well let me answer that for you: Most girls subconsciously become attracted to 'assholes' because they are MANLY, you know what straight girls want? Now bare with me this may come as a surprise to you, they want a man that acts like a MAN, not a boy who acts like an 8yr old girl who dropped her icecream. Tips for you sad fags: If she rejects you: ACCEPT IT, make sure that she knows how you feel but that you respect her decision. SETTLE FOR LESS, if you truly like this girl then you would not sacrifice your entire friendship just because she doesn't want more, if you can't settle for less you don't care about her you care about YOU and you need to leave her alone. DO NOT make her feel guilty, this will fuck your friendship over in an instant. DON'T BE A COCKBLOCK, she will resent you for this, or at the very least view you as a jealous female friend because that is exactly how you are acting, if you truly care about her don't try to jeopardize her future relationships. DON'T WAIT FOR HER, harsh as my advice has been i do not see you as lesser people and neither should you, do not act like a dog waiting for her to come home every day, don't be an ass and ignore her but accept that she isn't interested and go do your own thing. PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE, meet new people and venture out of your comfort zone, this shows maturity and willingness, it IS a turn on, she may not be interested but that doesn't mean no one will be, don't hang yourself up on one person, give other people a chance. In short, stop bitching, no one likes a whiny bitch. Look after yourself and let love find you, live you life and enjoy the people in it.
