Threaded Hearts question: Would you indulge us with your headcanon for Astarion & Gale? π
Oh my god how much time do you have? XD
I started out with the question of how two very different characters would find themselves in a relationship together. How would that happen?
Since a lot of my first endgame involved glossing over A LOT of buggy bs that has sort of been fixed? I was kind of left with the impression that Gale went on his way to find the crown. He was, ultimately, the whole reason I stood up Raphael. I can't express how deeply I cared about the guy without actually having done the romantic path. I wish there had been a path at the end to help him-
I also can only emphasise strongly how bad Quin would have been for Gale. I'm not even entirely sure Quin's that great for Astarion (it's complicated.) I don't want to reveal too much because I'll go into it, hopefully with comics, at some point, but suffice to say it could not be Quin stuck on a boat with Gale.
With Wyll heading to the hells with Karlach, Shadowheart doing her own thing (she has a book to write after all), Rolan too hung up in himself for ANYTHING approaching help. (in hindsight Minsc would have been hilarious but not really romantic((IN MY HEAD, have at it people its on the table))) This left things down to Astarion. I fully expected this to be one story where they bed each other happily in the process of getting the crown.
Astarion is healing in his own way, he could absolutely do his own thing and be happy in that. But I think, after going through his own precarious plans and decisions and suffering. Seeing some of that reflected in Gale FINALLY sorting out his own struggles with pride and ego touches him in a way that brings out his caring nature. They both share some of their problems, Gale is just a little behind Astarion because again, you set Astarion on the road with tying up the Cazador cycle. Not that he's healed, the scars are still pretty fresh, but he's a little giddy with the expanse of all that freedom.
(He stresses he doesn't need looking after in the aftermath of the game, but little hints at him actually UNDERSTANDING his freedom are happening.)
Putting problems and monsters in the way of their relationship is a me thing, I love this world, it is totally homebrew leanings. Having Astarion throw himself at things like a pissed off stray cat when someone he tolerates is in jeopardy amuses me greatly. Gale being really off his game and then finding his agency again with an unlikely person is quite healing for me too. (because agency is sexy)
I think, eventually, both of them will need more. More freedom vs more stability. But for now, and always really, they share a closeness that's full of banter and laughter and the knowledge that if there was ever a time when one needed the other they'd be there immediately. <3