#queer selfship

Even if you're fat.

Even if you're skinny.

Even if you're tall.

Even if you're short.

Even if your disabilities are invisible.

Even if your disabilities are visible.

Even if you stutter, have a hard time speaking or can't speak at all.

Even if you age regress / pet regress.

Even if you have scars, no matter how big or small.

Even if you have stretchmarks.

Even if your sex doesn't align with your gender.

Even if your body doesn't align with your species.

Even if someone made you feel lesser for the way your body is built or the way you behave.

You're beautiful in their eyes, and hope that some day you can see that beauty too.

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Make that f/o MLM‼️

Make that f/o WLW‼️

Make that f/o bi, pan, omni, poly, etc‼️

Make that f/o transfem‼️

Make that f/o transmasc‼️

Make that f/o nonbinary, demigender, genderfluid, agender, etc‼️

Make that f/o ace/ace-spec‼️

Make that f/o aro/aro-spec‼️

T4t selfships, queerplatonic selfships, ace but not aro selfships, aro but not ace selfships, poly selfships, aplatonic selfships, I WANNA SEE THEM ALL

Normalize your F/O's having wrinkles!!!

Normalize your older F/O's having wrinkles!!!

Normalize your younger F/O's (<20) having wrinkles!!!!

Normalize your F/O's smile lines, crows feet, bunny lines!!!

Normalize your F/O's forehead and frown folds!!!

Normalize your F/O's having a lot of wrinkles!!

Normalize your F/O's having barely any/some wrinkles!!

NORMALIZE YOUR F/O'S WRINKLES AND LOVE IT!!!!!!

your f/o listens to what you have to say and takes you at your word because they have no reason to distrust you. you don't have to explain yourself a million times in full detail when all you've done is exist as yourself. you aren't guilty of something, you didn't do anything wrong, you're someone they trust and respect the hell out of. why bother spending so much finite time with someone you didn't?

your f/o respects your identity. they don't ask you to change your hair or the way you dress or anything at all because thats what they fell for in the first place! why would they ever want to lose the person they love? they see you for what you tell them you are because, well, you're you. if there's any authority on that subject, it's you. they're not here to investigate or pick you apart, they're here because they want to see more of you, have you all the time.

your f/o loves you with all your flaws. yes, they might get annoyed, you might irritate each other, but only because you care. if everything broke as soon as a little pressure got put on it, everyone would be flying. they'll always come back to you at the end of the day, there's nobody else they can picture that'd be a better fit than you. frustration is a part of life, life that they want to share and spend with you, all it means is your relationship has only gotten stronger.

Happy pride month to all the intersex selfshippers who are celebrating this year!!!

To the transfeminine shippers, to transmasculine shippers. To the intersex selfshippers who are inbetween, or outside of the spectrum

And especially to the shippers who hc their partner as intersex as well!! Your partner/s love you 💛