#queer man

Quit comparing queer mascs TO NON-QUEER MEN

I might be too sensitive but I hate when people go "All penises are ugly and all vaginas are beautiful and wonderful" I've seen so many post body shaming men recently and I'm just like body shaming someone? That's not very woke of you. It just sucks to see this as someone who wants to get Phalloplasty eventually. Idk am I being too sensitive?

queer men* always have to occupy this sort of in-between space in terms of gender expression in order to be respected. If we are masculine, we are seen as predatory and dangerous, inherently harmful. If we are feminine, we are inferior, submissive, and “basically women” (this manifests in being seen as either transfem eggs if we are presumed to be cis or future detransitioners if we are presumed to be trans). If we are androgynous, we are forced into masculinity or femininity depending on the situation. We aren’t allowed to express ourselves in any way without having something presumed about us, our identities, how we act, etc.