People don't seem to be ready to accept "if you don't like someone's label, don't date them" and it's fascinating to watch the reactions everywhere when the people who do know it try to soft-launch it every year.
"Lesboys are invalid because it invalidates their identity!" If they're calling themselves a lesboy, clearly they don't feel invalidated by it. Don't like lesboys? Don't date one.
"Turigirls are invalid because it invalidates their identity!" If they're calling themselves a turigirl, clearly they don't feel invalidated by it. Don't like turigirls? Don't date one.
"I'm not calling someone it/its, that's dehumanising!" If it's asking for you to call it by it/its and you're refusing, then you're breaking boundaries. Don't like it/its users? Don't date one.
"I'm not calling someone pup/pupself, that's ridiculous!" If pup's asking you to call pup by pup/pupself, then pup trusted you with that information. Don't like neopronouns? Don't date a neopronoun user.
Just because you don't understand something doesn't mean that it's inherently harmful and you need to harass them for it, because nine times out of ten it is in good faith and harassment only makes you angry.
DISCLAIMER: WHILE THIS POST IS ABOUT QUEER PRIDE AND NOT HARASSING PEOPLE FOR IDENTITIES, I WOULD RATHER RADQUEERS AND (PRO-) ENDO/WILLOGENICS NOT INTERACT WITH THIS POST. THAT IS MY 'DONT LIKE DONT DATE.'