If you ever been in writing or critique circles, online or not, you are probably familiar with this term.
It's both a critique and a tip that people give writer that basically means that we should see certain character's characteristics in action and not just getting told about it through dialogue.
For example, if a show you watch keeps having its characters tell you that the MC (main character) is good at making pizza, but we never see said character make pizza, it'd be hard for us to believe said fact.
Show don't tell also has some backlash, mostly with how difficult it so apply it to your own story projects (especially those done in prose) if you are not too familiar with its complexities.
And there is a specific critique that I personally have of show don't tell that I don't think other people have talked about.
Does it promote bigotry? Let me explain.
Dead End paranormal park, also known as Deadendia, is a Netflix animated series adapting the first two Deadendia graphic novels that was cancelled after two seasons, and on a big cliffhanger at that.
One of the most well known aspects of this show was the fact that the male lead Barney is a gay trans man who is also Jewish.
The scene in which he comes out to Norma as trans has gotten a lot of praise for being the first instance that many people saw the word ātransā being used out loud in animation.
And as much as I love that, it does point out an issue this and other queer media have when it comes to how they handle labels.
The discussion about labels is usually centered around the fact that people are complex and we shouldnāt use labels to define an entire personās identityā which is something I agree with.
When it comes to media however it gets more muddy.
To put it in simple terms, where members of the queer community accepted the complexities of labels, media isnāt as far ahead as for example queer labels are treated as taboo (name one time the word ace was mentioned in an animated show outside of bojack horseman) and as we time and time again, media does have the power to impact our every day lives.
An infamous example of that case was the movie "Birth of a nation" that many people criticized for making the KKK reappear in American society.
What does show don't tell have to do with anything like this? Especially for Dead End?
Norma is the female lead in this series. She is also south Asian, bisexual and autistic.
All of these traits are shown in the series in different ways. Normaās ethnicity is very clear, the second half of the series has her go through an arc where she comes out as bi, and there was an entire episode dedicated to her troubles as an autistic person.
Only the word āautismā itself was never mentioned in the show.
Granted some of may not take an issue with this, most likely because if you watched the show youād clearly see how the show didnāt even try to hide Normaās autism. But I personally find it that it makes the issue worse.
To illustrate why, name me one show that has a queer brown ND girl as itās female lead that uses the word āautismā in text. Itās hard to think of one right?
Even though the show did an incredible job showing us Norma's autistic traits over and over again. The fact the word autism was never mentioned itself makes me feel as if the creators still wanted to make the rep "safe" for big companies and audiences.
Not only that, this show is targeted towards a younger demographic, one which may not be even aware that autism is a thing. I didnāt know it was a thing until high school and there could be worse cases about that as well. Not only do I find the absence of the word āautisticā very frustrating as an ND woman myself, there is a high chance of it negatively impacting nd youth too.
āIsnāt this a blog about queer characters? What does autism have to do with that?ā
For one, this show didnāt shy away from using queer labels in text
As I mentioned earlier, one of the showās most well known moments was Barney saying āIām trans, Norma.ā and when Norma comes out as Bi to Logs (Barney's love interest) she gets so giddy that she keeps saying the word ābiā over and over again.
The word autism doesnāt get the same treatment whatsoever.
āWell, maybe the creators didnāt think of her autism as that important?ā
The creator of the show is both an autistic trans man who use the word autism openly in the original deadendia comics.
Which make this whole case even more confusing. I used to believe they wanted to use the word in the third season that never came out, but the fact that it HAD been used in the comics makes that idea hard to swallow.
The point of this essay wasnāt to cancel the creator or deadendia itself, or to assume that the creator had bad intentions for not using the word autism in the script.
The point is to show the problem of how we handle labels.
Labels are important. They are a language by queer people for queer people to express themselves with words they connect to. The words themselves even saving peopleās lives. And many are reclaimed from bigoted people as a way for us to stand up for ourselves
The amount of times I've seen people use the term gay to express themselves proudly in front of bigots, how lesbians keep defending the word "lesbian" with it's history of mistreatment. The various umbrella terms that help aspec and trans people use to better express themselves.
And yet these words donāt have a ton of respect. Case in point, we coined them as ālabelsā
Bi and trans, both words that help a large community express themselves, has been mistreated by bigots and their own queer peers, is also apparently just a label
Asexual and Aromantic, two terms that help people finally understand themselves to their core, is also a label, even if representation for aspec folk is still lacking to this day.
Autism, a word many people prefer to use to describe themselves over Asperger's (which has roots in Nazi history) seems to be just a label too. Autism in fact could be considered to be treated far worse than queer terms because of the fact that it's a medical term for a condition that can't be "healed," unlike queer labels that are more fluid in nature.
And media, whether it was created by queer or allocishet folks, refuses to use these ālabels.ā
Maybe itās because those imply something ugly, strange or just donāt grab a mass audience. Or maybe they didnāt want to break the āshow vs tellā rule. Maybe to some it is more important to follow loose storytelling rules to get a better audience reaction, than to showcase our true experiences that may give us ugly looks.
Who knows? I never worked for a big corporation.
TLDR: Deadendia not using the word autism, most likely because of the "show vs tell" rule, shows a bigger issue of how we treat labels used to describe various queer and disabled minorities, and how it can imply many negative things about the people who use these labels
Edit: Someone pointed out that Hamish Steele (the creator of deadendia) is not a trans man, I've been looking through the net to see and I haven't come across anything about his gender identity. I apologise for spreading misinformation - mod peridot