#public relations

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their sun in your 4th house they act like a warm light in your most private rooms. standing near them feels like a quiet sunday afternoon regardless of what is happening outside. they illuminate your history plus your family patterns making you feel seen at your most basic level. your identity feels anchored in their orbit plus you find yourself wanting to share your secrets before you even know their middle name.

their moon in your 4th house this is the ultimate emotional homecoming. they pick up on your needs before you even name them plus they feel like a person you have known for a thousand years. there is a psychic safety between you that allows you to be small plus vulnerable without any fear. they nurture your spirit at the roots plus their presence is the only thing that makes the noise of the world stop for a while.

their mercury in your 4th house you share a private language that belongs only to the two of you. conversations happen in the quiet spaces plus the shared glances across a dinner table. they hear the stories you usually keep in the drawers plus they translate the things you thought were too personal to say out loud. it is a mental merger where your most intimate thoughts finally find a witness who doesn't ask for a map.

their venus in your 4th house this is a soft plus beautiful devotion that makes your internal world feel like a masterpiece. they love the parts of you that are messy plus the version of you that is in pajamas with messy hair. it feels like a bond built on shared comfort plus high quality silence. they are the ones who make your house feel like a sanctuary plus they teach you that you are worthy of a heart even when you aren't trying to be impressive.

their mars in your 4th house there is a subterranean fire in your roots that can feel like a sudden jolt. they trigger the defensive instincts plus the energy you’ve been taught to keep hidden behind closed doors. you might find them intensely magnetic plus sometimes irritating because they move right into your safe zone. they push you to defend your own territory plus they make you feel more alive through the friction of the connection.

their jupiter in your 4th house they act like a guardian angel who brings abundance to your private life. their presence makes your internal world feel bigger plus more hopeful than ever before. they help you realize that you deserve a sanctuary that is full of laughter plus growth. for you they are a teacher who reminds you how to feel safe in your own skin plus they expand your definition of what family can actually be.

their saturn in your 4th house a heavy sense of responsibility settles into the foundation of the bond. it feels like building a house stone by stone with someone who intends to stay for a lifetime. they bring structure plus discipline to your private world but they can also make you feel the weight of your past obligations. you find your grit through this connection by realizing that a real home is something you build with sweat plus patience.

their uranus in your 4th house they are the lightning bolt that hits your family tree plus breaks all the old rules. their arrival is a sudden update to your internal sense of safety. they show you that home is not a fixed point but a feeling of freedom you carry within yourself. it is an erratic plus exciting bond that refuses to follow any traditional script of domestic life. they wake up the revolutionary in your roots.

their neptune in your 4th house the boundaries of your sanctuary dissolve into smoke plus music. you might feel a dreamlike connection that makes it hard to tell where your heart ends plus theirs begins. there is a risk of losing your grounding in the fog of the connection but you also find a spiritual peace that escapes logic. you find your homecoming in the silence plus the realization that everything is connected by invisible threads.

their pluto in your 4th house they own the keys to your basement plus they aren't afraid to look in the boxes. they trigger total self annihilations followed by magnificent rebirths of your internal foundation. you might feel a terrifying level of intensity with them because they see the family ghosts you’ve been guarding since you were a kid. they don't do surface plus they don't do safe. they force you to heal the roots so the tree can finally breathe.

their north node in your 4th house a fated pull toward the emotional depth you’ve been avoiding. their arrival is a signal that it is time to stop running plus start building an internal foundation. every interaction pushes you to heal your childhood wounds plus start looking at the version of yourself that exists when nobody is watching. they are the catalyst for your soul’s homecoming.

their south node in your 4th house the familiarity between you feels centuries old plus heavy with unsaid history. being with them feels like revisiting the house you grew up in even if you’ve never met before. you share a hidden baggage that needs no explanation plus you are tied together by a secret that both of you still carry in your bones. it feels like finishing a story that was left half written in another era.

their chiron in your 4th house they touch the spot that still stings when you think about your childhood. their existence mirrors the shame plus the feeling of not belonging that you’ve carried since the beginning. you find medicine in their company because they stay in the sanctuary with you until the memories stop hurting. they teach you that your vulnerability is actually the thing that makes your home real.

their part of fortune in your 4th house joy lives in the quiet rituals plus the simple acts of care you share. you find your gold in the kitchen at midnight plus the emotional safety you build together. the relationship feels like a treasure chest where the only currency is the peace plus the magic you find when the door is locked to the noise of the rest of the world.

their ascendant in your 4th house their very presence feels like family. they embody the qualities that make you feel grounded plus their physical aura triggers your need for a sanctuary. they look like the person you were always waiting for to come home. you find your identity through the quiet comfort of the bond plus you realize that being seen at your most basic level is the ultimate success.

their descendant in your 4th house you attract their grounding energy through the mirror of the relationship. they are the anchor you have been hunting for. this connection forces you to face your own need for safety plus your desire for a private legacy. you find your balance when you realize that a real bond is one where both people are allowed to be the heartbeat of the home.

their midheaven in your 4th house they transform your private world through their public ambition. your roots are supported by their reputation plus you might find that they provide the social structure you need to feel safe. they help you build a name that is based on the integrity of your home life. your success becomes a shared foundation that the rest of the world can eventually see.

A customer service representative saying they don’t have an answer doesn’t mean there’s nothing going on. It simply means they are not the department with that information or the authority to speak on it. They only know/are able to speak about what has been officially announced.

They DO NOT have access to inside information.

Here’s something interesting to understand as I slowly start nerding out because my fyp is driving me crazy with how many people are losing hope over customer service responses:

Large companies usually operate on a need-to-know basis for security, confidentiality, consistent communication, and prevention of misinformation or leaks.

Different departments only have access to the information they actually need for their role, nothing more or less than that.

This is especially common when it comes to upcoming announcements, products, updates, or major company decisions. The people working on a project may know the details, while other departments may only receive information closer to what was officially released.

This helps manage communication. If every department had access to every internal discussion, there would be a much higher chance of outdated information being shared, accidental leaks happening, or employees unintentionally giving customers information that was never finalized.

Chaos, basically.

To top it off: companies also have dedicated teams responsible for public communication. Marketing, public relations, and official announcement channels usually coordinate when and how information is revealed because timing and wording matter.

A customer service representative’s job is to provide support using information officially available. They are never authorized to casually share information that has not been cleared for public communication. They are NOT the Public Relations department, nor are they leaders, HR, Communications, or developers, which is why you shouldn’t take their responses as the final blow.

I’ll say this again: A support representative can only speak from the information and guidelines that have been officially provided. It is not in their jurisdiction to confirm future plans or reveal internal discussions.

So, please please PLEASE do not lose hope over a message by someone who is not able to say anything more than what has already been announced.

A customer service should never be seen as the voice of the company as a whole. It is ONE small department with MAJOR limitations to its role and don’t have the authority to say more than what is already given.

Until an official statement is made by the appropriate teams, don’t treat a support message as the final answer. Before you even think about doing that, remember that you are hearing from a department designed to support customers based off of given, heavily limited information, not a team that knows what’s going on the inside or is authorised to share such.

Thank you for reading and I hope this helps give you a broad idea on how companies work and how they don’t give every department access to internal details. Please stop sharing misinformation or losing hope over something that was never meant to be confirmation.

Take a step back, look at the bigger picture, and remember that different teams have different responsibilities and levels of access. For good reason, too (obviously).

Don’t give up or lose hope, LADies. We’ve got this! Stay strong and keep fighting.

Please take care of yourselves! Love you <3

I have been Anon informed that my opinion on anything that happened before December is invalid, so let's talk about the Big Issue of the day: Baby Daddy Stan. Or at the very least, the handling of the entire situation from a PR perspective. Because it's been divisive, although primarily down the same Shipper/ Anti-Shipper lines most things seem to be these days.

Now, I will be posting and talking about paparazzi images in this, and I cannot stress enough that I feel disgusting doing so, but I've got them from other blogs on here instead of from the outlets themselves so it feels slightly more forgivable in my head, and as I believe these absolutely are pap walks, that makes it feel more forgivable too. It's not privacy invasion if you organised the paps to photograph you, as I've said. I will also be discussing parts of this that are inconsistent, and a big part of that is Annabelles bump. This is not to body shame her, I need that to be very clear, but simply to talk about how things do or do not line up.