#psychosexual

(bonus points if I get flashed)

That’s all.

its like lee requires guidance and a strong sense of order in her life, while gray requires control. together they work because they have what the other needs to thrive!! it also approaches sex in a way that i had never been exposed to before because its psychosexual. I had been thinking on that level but not realizing it yknow. i never have thought of sex as taboo and also this sounds weird but i fear people over sexualize sex!!!!!!! its like society is trying to seell pleasure instead of fulling experiencing it. this is definitely because of men because for so long its been about THEM! i know some are dead set on pleasing their woman, cool, but as a society its been about men for the most part. because the suffering of a woman is most important. if it wasnt about men, sex wouldnt even be the main event!! it would be all about the emotional and physical journey to that point. but, no, its seemingly only important when a man finally gets his dick in someone. now, you might be thinking, well isnt lee suffering in the secretary? in my interpretation, no she is not. in fact, if we take a closer look at it, she is truly the one in control of the situation. she is the one who is gaining most of the pleasure and most of all, release she gets from what gray and her do together!

my comfort film