#psa tag

As like a general reminder, if you find things in my art/work i make hot and/or sexy etc please keep it to yourself. As an asexual I’d rather not know what you’d want to do to my aus or whatever since they are essentially extensions of me and my own psyche. It genuinely makes me incredibly uncomfortable in my own skin.

One thing I will ALWAYS stand on business on is having a safe space for yourself and writing. As someone who had a very real reality check because I was the God damn problem, having a safe dash/TL is so important because all it takes is one person to ruin everything you wanted to do, everything you had planned, and kill a muse that you put your heart and soul into.

PSA. so i have been rping on tumblr since 2017 with ups and downs and really never had any problems, but one thing i noticed is that whenever i write a canon character there's this very awkward moment in replies where people assume things about the portrayal based on their comprehension about said character. it happens with me, too, but i'm trying to police it more and more. mistakes happen, especially with an universe like asoiaf. but please, assume things about my dany (which is fine sometimes, ok? like. i don't expect anynone to actually read EVERY TAKE i post on this silly blog) but don't try to correct me through threads. i am not writing your vision here, or grrm's. this is my interpretation and on rp there is no right or wrong about any character/universe unless it harms and triggers people. i may dislike a character you like, for example, but adore and write with your version of them (this happens with alicent for example. i dont like hotd alicent at all but am more than happy to write w blogs based on that and actually love them! as it happens frequently, alicent blogs ily) aaand this doesnt give me the right to constantly bash alicent on threads through dany/inner self, or use it as a escaping moment to push my opinions of her to you and especially towards your portrayal. thats just rude lol

FYI I’ll be traveling literally all day tomorrow (8/18) so I won’t be active unless I work on drafts on the plane or something. I’m flying to new mexico to go to a wedding & im coming back Tuesday (8/22). I’m sure I’ll be around a little when I have downtime, but not too much bc we’ll be doing wedding stuff and at some point I’m seeing barbie w. my sister.

This summer if you see a big girl wearing a croptop ✨mind your business ✨