#pro mspec

they are when the whole "men can be lesbians" thing is vocalized

bc being a lesbian is like... inherently non-man loving non-men ... question mark

i get tmasc lesbians, butches, studs, he/him lesbians & genderfluid lesbians , but a strictly transman lesbian ? idk

ik it sounds hypocritical coming from me bc im a "boygirl transmale" but i really mean like im a genderfluid guy... im masc & fem and im neither and all... but im still a guy whos into other guys。

it also begs the question : you're a trans guy lesbian in a relationship with a cis woman lesbian and since being a lesbian is "queer attraction to women" like.. then what...? what happens now? r u suddenly not a man anymore bc ur in a relationship with a lesbian or...? is ur trans bf a woman to you? thats why its confusing and seems transphobic。

it just doesnt make alot of sense to me, which is okay identify how u want , love who u want but im still gonna question it bc i dont understand , i dont need to understand everything ik , but if something seems transphobic im gonna look at it weird

if ur a lesboy ur cool n stuff 🫡

Sapphic Aroace Demisensual

Left: Sapphic Aroace Demisensual ((ALT 2))

Right: Sapphic Aroace Demisensual (including a bit more of the Sapphic Flag) ((ALT 2))

Left: Sapphic Aroace Demisensual ((ALT 3))

Right: Sapphic Aroace Demisensual (including a bit more of the Sapphic Flag) ((ALT 3))

I&& decided I&& wanted to try a few more variations for a Sapphic Aroace Demisensual flag. The one with two pink lines is supposed to add more color variation while the one that's purely pink is supposed to be more similar to the Sapphic Flag. I&& think I'm&& okay with these being other versions of the previous flag that only had the Sapphic symbol (which technically isn't too different to be consider a "first flag" but I&& added alt 2/3 just to simplify things in a way).

Sapphic Demisensual

Left: Sapphic Demisensual ((Ver. 1))

Right: Sapphic Demisensual (including a bit more of the Sapphic Flag) ((Ver. 1))

Left: Sapphic Demisensual ((Ver. 2))

Right: Sapphic Demisensual (including a bit more of the Sapphic Flag) ((Ver. 2))

Lesbian Demisensual

Full Image: Lesbian Demisensual Flag

Left: Sapphic + Lesbian (alt) with a bigger middle, leaning towards the Sapphic flag design

Right: Sapphic + Lesbian (alt) with a smaller/regular middle, leaning towards the Lesbian flag design

Left: Sapphic + Lesbian with a pink tint

Right: Sapphic + Lesbian

I&& couldn't find a combination of Sapphic and Lesbian as a flag so I decided to make a few variations of my&& own. The first two are more filtered flags to make the colors fit more. The second two are just the sapphic + lesbian flags slightly altered to go well together. The colors don't have their own meanings beyond what the original flags entailed or you could see the flags with more inclusive definitions.

The flags are for whoever want to use them. You can use it if you're sapphic or lesbian and like the flag combinations or if you identify as sapphic and a lesbian in any way.

I&& wasn't able to find posts coining these combinations, mainly Sapphic Lesbian. I&& feel like someone might of coined it or it might of been used by some back then but I'm&& not sure where to look so I&& guess this could technically be a coining post for a combination of those terms? I'm&& not too fond of that idea (of coining potential pre-existing terms, I&& mean) but I'm&& more for these being seen as flag coinings or regular ol' combination identity flags. I&& see the first two more as Sapphic Lesbian flags in terms of an identity.

More flags under cut (Aroace Demisensual / demiaroacesensual, Aroace Sapphic Demisensual, Sapphic Lesbian Aroace Demisensual, Sapphic Lesbian Demisensual / demisaplesensual or a more simplified version of that, Sapphic Demisensual, and Lesbian Demisensual)

So remember that lady I talked to you about last time? Well, I joined a sapphic community here on tumblr, which she was apparently very active in. This morning I wake up and find that she’s been making all sorts of complaints about me, calling me lesbophobic and saying I was pretending to be a lesbian to justify it(neither of which I am or ever did), and the mods banned me(sending me a very disrespectful message with it about how butches and femmes can only be lesbians, like wtf did I do???).

Hope this is the last time this dead horse will get beat, but the level of pettiness to me was just astronomical. Anywho, that’s it from me!