first if you're so cool, then don't send these types of asks anonymously. that's a coward's way to go about it, but then again, i'm not surprised.

second of all:

I couldn't hold my husband Martell's attention.

i'm not even sure what that means? elia's husband wasn't a martell. lmao go read the actual books.

third of all, you rhaelyas are the BIGGEST hypocrites in this fandom. you say that elia couldn't hold rhaegar's attnetion and that lyanna could - essentially painting lyanna as some seductress who stole him way (which is a disgusting and disturbing way to put it). however, the moment anyone criticises lyanna, you pivot and insist she was just a 14-year-old girl who shouldn't be blamed or hated.

so which is it? was she an innocent and blamless child who didn't understand what eh was doing? or was she a coold badass warrior who chose to run off with the crown prince? you can't just cherry-pick whichever 'trope' to fit lyanna in different contexts.

you guys commission artwork of rhaegar and lyanna having sex in the tower of joy (which is so weird btw bc if lyanna existed rn she couldn't even be allowed see the artwork bc she's not even 18), but then whenever ppl then say how lyanna should at least have some blame (not all ofc, it's 99.9% rhaegar's fault), you all come roaring and screaming 'NO SHE WAS A KID SHE DIDN'T UNDERSTAND!'

do you lot see the hypocrisy or are you just too blinded by your weird ass fantasies?

ofc there are some hardcore elia stans who baselessly hate on lyanna, which is also disgusting. but you guys act as if all elia stans do that, which simply isn't true. there are also lyanna fans calling elia slurs, but most other normal lyanna fans are nice or neutral about elia. painting all elia fans as rabid haters is just as unfair as the reverse.

P.S. (this being said, i do think lyanna's character is more nuanced than either of the two tropes. but for the sake of this anon, i'm not gonna go into it, as they obviously wouldn't understand character analysis any deeper than a puddle)

so, please, grow up. if lyanna existed irl, she would probably hate you as her fan considering she's actually a kind person.

it's interesting how most of the time (most, not all) elia fans focus on their fave. elia. while their haters rather than completely focus on their faves, ALREADY go and hate on elia. like holy cow.