Every Diary Has a Secret. Some Get Solved.
She Called Herself "the Lone Old Woman." We Finally Know Her Name.
For years, one of the diaries in the Newberryâs collections sat without an author. The cover notation described it simply as â1880 Diary of a woman from San Jose, Ill., purchased at Greenview 1988.â Inside, her handwriting was careful, her voice vivid â and her identity a mystery.
Then two volunteers, working independently and unknown to each other, cracked it at the same time.
Emily La Framboise and Sheila Carter-Hart both contacted us in April with the same answer: the woman in the diary is Sarah B. Withers of Bloomington, Illinois â widow, philanthropist, world traveler, and one of the most fascinating figures to emerge from Newberry Transcribe yet.
Two Detectives, One Answer
Emily came to the mystery from the inside out. Part of an online community called the Diary Detectives, Emily figured out that the daughter Sarah addressed as âJessaâ was Jessamine; in the handwriting, the name could easily look like âPepaâ or âPapa.â Another clue came when Sarah marked the anniversary of her husband Allenâs death and remembered the place where they had married 44 years earlier.
Then came the lightbulb moment. On June 3, 1880, Sarah wrote that Tom Welch had invited her to travel to Europe with him: âoh my patience how it excited me,â she wrote. âI wrote Tom that I would go.â Emily found a newspaper notice saying that a Mrs. Withers planned to travel to Europe with Mr. Welch â and the departure date matched the diary.
Sheila took a different route, following names in the transcript until she connected Sarahâs son-in-law, John Winter, to the wider family. She also contacted the Bloomington Historical Museum, which confirmed the identification and noted that its collection includes another Sarah Withers diary.
Reading Between the Lines
Once the diarist had a name, the entries came into focus. Sarah wrote nearly every day: about letters, church, illness, weather, French lessons, Turkish baths, loneliness, and home. During her travels, she recorded visits across Europe. On the return voyage, she wrote movingly about three babies who died at sea, grieving for the mothers who âcould not have imagined this would be the end of their journey.â
The diary also holds harder histories. Sarah writes often about Henry, a man connected to the Withers household. Emilyâs research found that Sarah and Allen had purchased Henry as a child while living in Missouri; after the family moved to Illinois, Henry was free but remained close to the family. The diary preserves that complicated intimacy â affection alongside the brutal facts of slavery.
Sarahâs later life left a civic legacy. Her will helped fund a library in Bloomington, another in Jessamine County, Kentucky, a childrenâs park with no âkeep off the grassâ signs, and a home for aged and indigent women named for Jessamine. She also left money to the local AME church in Henryâs name.
Both diary volumes are marked complete in Newberry Transcribe, but Emily hopes to keep revisiting them, filling in words earlier transcribers couldnât decipher. That, too, is part of the work: not just finishing a transcription, but returning to it with sharper eyes.
Together, Emily and Sheila turned an unidentified diary into a life story â and gave a woman who once called herself âthe lone old womanâ her name back.
Browse the diary â or read it with transcriptions by clicking "Image w/ Text" and paging through with the arrows.