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I've been trying to write about embarrassment for the past few days but haven't figured out where to begin. So here's something from the bottom of my heart.

First, there is (Why childhood is Important)

Embarrassment This thirteen-letter word possesses the most royalty of any word. When we dressed up all by ourselves and then some insignificant existing being appeared who is always ready to judge others. The main point is that in our Indian society, we were always taught that you need the opinions of others to shine on your own. Because we are social creatures. When that 'F' is judging you, you'll feel like dude is it necessary to be entertained. And if you somehow tell a close friend, Pressure from Society

Then there's the actual fire test. Your attitude was formed immediately following the comment and judgmental incident. In your adolescence, you try to demean others simply because of what others have done to you. You become that reckless individual rather than attempting to fit in by doing what others will do anyway. Then they'll pass judgement, but you don't care. But once you're out of your teens, you'll realise the whole embarrassment thing was a lie. By then, you'll be wearing whatever makes you feel more at ease or makes you feel more like yourself. Furthermore, the entire known society continues to mock your family for being themselves. You want to smash their face, but you remember that your success will put a stop to it. Awakens

You will have mastered the art of ignoring everything by this point, and you will be unconcerned about anything except your mental peace. It's the most appealing thing you could ever imagine. Meanwhile, knowing how to use social media correctly will aid in the most important growth of your life, your mindset. You'll attract people by allegedly embarrassing yourself, and they'll contact you about your mindset, which will boost your confidence.

P.S. As a result of this process, you will have to let go of some unwelcome people, despite your best efforts.

Nobody Is Concerned

After going through this process, you will learn the most important lesson of your life: "nobody cares." This is because everyone has problems, struggles to share, or is simply waiting for someone to listen to their story without passing judgement. Or many have found their solutions by simply having some addiction in some way or another. They waited so long for someone to hear them and when they didn't, they tried to escape from their reality, and that's how everything works on this beautiful earth.

Be who you are.

No one can replace your identity. When I say identity, I mean many aspects of one's character, as well as how you make them feel about themselves. So it's better to be yourself than anyone else; your uniqueness is up to you; you must discover it for yourself, and this journey is extremely relaxing because there is no formula for discovering your "unique factor." So it's better to go through it all on your own and do whatever you want.

This time, there is a craze about "let's normalise" everything starts from within, so it is better to normalise every talk that is considered abnormal and trust me, if not you, then someone or a stranger will benefit from it. Because there is someone or a group of people who would love to hear that, and their confidence will inspire you to do better every day, which is known as "perseverance."

Have you ever wondered what if in your debut to social media at least someone can give a brief idea about social media? It will make you more protected than ever, isn't it?

Again time for a personal story.......

So my social media debut happened in the year after my 10th board when I got my first mobile which was Gionee P5 mini in Blue. my first social media guru was a senior and a very dear friend of mine who herself doesn't know anything in detail, but we have a thing in common that is we both have to be socially present in the worldwide famous app. My difficulty was remembering my password(which is still a dilemma) and also I don't know how to hide my phone number if my guru is also unaware of that. From there, the struggle started. My phone number got almost viral in the area every fu*k boy knows my number and I got traumatic calls and still for that trauma I don't receive any unknown number. Later when I have understood it was all about the number in my Facebook account was not hidden then I decided to log out and delete the account but somehow I had managed to get the things in order and thought let's get back to the community. Then I realised that dude I don't even remember my passwords and other hazards... I left that account as it is and moves to Instagram in the year 2017 and was happy about the securities it provided.

In the meantime, I've realised that Facebook is that vast community where people can do anything with anyone's mental health without showing their real face and real name. That traumatised me for at least 2 years in the gap I've learned it's very important to understand social media before using it insane.

So have you ever wondered the definition of Digital Citizenship? I also venture that it's not necessarily important but now I know it's important because according to Mike Ribble, digital citizenship is using tech responsibly and appropriately. There are even nine normal elements that define social citizenship in this manner:- Access, Communication, Literacy Etiquette, Law, Rights and Responsibilities, Health and Wellness last but not least security.

Even there are tips to engage with others:-

Be patient.

Dialogue.

Share responsibly.

Maintain relationships.

Be respectful.

And for the sake of a good citizen, you must possess..........

build it up, real-world influencers, use technology appropriately and most importantly

"Treating others the way that you would like to be treated".

That's it for today

Amigos adios

This is miss mess up signing off 🙏🤗

Happy reading.

I was always that average kid who doesn't take a stand where needed because it's has an implicit memory. So in my high school days, I experienced something that I wished no one has ever experienced, our school has a pattern where unit tests were taken in 3months and copies showed us. On that day I was there to check my copy and the marks and I just have a problem with a marking so I asked the ma'am (though it's a girls' school) why you cut my marks on this question? And for me, it was fair to ask what was wrong with the answer, maybe my tone was bad or not. I was then 11 and now at 21, I feel if she could tell me more gently then I can work for better performance. That 2marks question gives me the worst lesson of life to not take any stand for myself. She replied with anger that she doesn't owe me any explanation about the question I've asked for, instead of that she told me not to question teachers about their actions or words.

Later in college, the exposure was as tiny as a school where my professor (Particularly one) taught me no matter how hard you try to get something always remember there are better persons out there in your class who don't ask anything on our words or actions but, just obey.

But in the social media exposure, I have understood dude it's the worst to obey everything without asking anything and asking anything should be a habit of you when it's come to the "real world". From that day when Ankur Warikoo told me that the best you can do to yourself is to become curious about what you're going through, I always choose to ask if there is anything doubtful or mysterious. And guess what in my final exam of graduation the professor particularly gave fewer marks because one of her decision I didn't agree with for that I and my rebel friends got fewer marks on that paper.