#practical astrology

how many times have you dreamed of something random that happened in your day, and that you didn't remember anymore? everything that happens to us enters our being, because we are always sharing and receiving information. that's why I've been talking for a long time about the importance of knowing how to consume the right information and being in environments that bring "good information" to your mind.

the more time you spend in places and with people that don't help, the more you receive negative messages, fuel for complicated, dysfunctional, negative thoughts.

a clear example: a person who has a terrible love relationship, living with this person who constantly says negative things about him/her, who nourishes in this person's mind feelings of incapacity and lack of love, of not being worthy of love. the damage that this relationship will do in that person's mind is immense.

many times, even after getting out of difficult situations, we tend to believe that we are fine, because consciously certain issues no longer affect us. we are wrong. because the most sensitive issues are always being dealt with in another "layer" of our mind: the unconscious.

therefore, the importance of working with the health of your thoughts is immense, healthy thoughts are thoughts open to change, healing, which admit your weaknesses, your internal needs. exaggeratedly negative thoughts need to be removed from your mind, but don't force yourself to change them, don't believe that running away from them is the ideal thing to do. what we need to do is replace them with other thoughts which, after a certain amount of time being repeated, will become things you will believe. thoughts that others will rarely speak to you. but do you really need to wait to hear these things?

we need to take care of ourselves, be responsible with our life. and for that you need to face your insecurities and try to heal them in the ways available to you.

"but I don't know exactly what are my insecurities."

I have some posts here where I mention which are the placements on the natal chart that indicate the Shadows of our personality. I remember some: placements with Saturn, Chiron, Lilith, Pluto, and some of the aspects with them.

In this post, I bring part 1 of repetitions to heal wounds, part 1 is about love, relationships in general, and healing the feeling of unworthy, unimportance, which can generate a series of problems in relationships, and, first, problems within you.

these are words that need to be truly spoken, and I believe that many, if not all, will feel the depth of these words, perhaps having difficulty speaking some of them at first. don't give up, the more you have difficulty talking, especially to yourself, the more you should keep trying.

remember that words have power. repeat them whenever necessary. and adapt to your reality. the important thing is to say something that will help you to understand your inner problems.

I say that because when you are full of misconceptions and you say something different, your mind rejects it. if you feel rejection towards these more constructive words, it means that you really need it, because you have many distorted ideas about this subject: love and worthiness.

repetitions for the following placements and aspects: Chiron in Libra Chiron in the 7th house lilith in libra Lilith in the 7th house Venus square Saturn Venus opposition Saturn Venus conjunction Saturn Saturn in Libra Saturn in the 7th house Pluto in the 7th house Venus square Pluto Venus conjunction Pluto

"My love life, blessed and happy, I'm sorry, forgive me, I love you, thank you"

"I declare light, harmony, respect and happiness in my love life. I align with my soul mate and thrive with romance and harmony in love. I open myself to unconditional love, I love myself, I allow myself to truly love and be beloved. the love that sets free, the love that is light, and that flows from my divine spark and expands to the world around me. and so it is. My love life, blessed and happy, I'm sorry, forgive me, I love you, thank you". (by Marta Allegretti, Pt-Br)

other possibilities (my phrases):

"I believe that love exists. I stop believing that love was not meant for me and that love is about negative experiences and enduring bad things."

"I want to be love. I am love. So be it. And so it is." "I forgive those who hurt me. I forgive myself for hurt me. So be it. And so it is."

"I allow myself to receive a love that nourishes me, that frees me from the distorted feeling that loving is for few"

"I understand what love is, from the inside out. I understand that I need to love myself first, to then want to be loved. I understand that loving is a process, that I respect, and from which I deserve to receive the best."

"love is aligned in my life now. love is present in all my actions now. I am open to love. true love sets me free, from the inside out."

"Through the connection with my feelings of self-love, I learn the essence of loving, that from the most intimate contact with myself, I know to recognize the most sensitive needs of human life. I am ready to give, receive and trust in the love, so that I can share and receive from others. I know how to have empathy and compassion. So be it. And so it is."

Ho'oponopono: