#posi

Okay I'm getting a little overwhelmed by rbs of that post lol but just so everyone knows!! I will ALWAYS support your self ships 💖💖 no one should ever feel unseen or alone, and I think its something that needs to be said more often!! We need to uplift each other, more than ever. Everyone who sees this has me as their biggest fan!!

I need mentally ill trans girls out there to know they're loved, I need physically disabled trans girls out there to know they're loved. I know every day can feel like you're a burden and terrible, but you're loved and wanted, you are not a burden and even if you were we want to carry that burden.

I went to “good enough” island and they had a seat reserved for you there

if there's one thing i could impart on anyone younger, especially younger queer/trans/creative people, as someone who is all of the above entering their 30's and objectively spent 90% of it depressed, ill, isolated, and in shit situations it's that you really do just gotta keep going. i know, i know it sucks and you don't want to. but man you gotta. you gotta live long enough to see all those tears of pain turn into tears of pride for yourself and your survival. you've gotta live long enough to meet the people you'll love and hear them laugh. you gotta live long enough to outlive your desire to die. and i know it sucks a lot along the way, i know it's antithetical to your wants. but your wants aren't the same as your needs. and you don't need to die, you need to live.

Extra love to those of you who choose kindness when you yourself were raised mean. To those who bite their lip on their instinctive first response while carefully choosing something more helpful to say. Those working to do good in the world when it never comes easy. It’s so hard to learn new patterns and rebuild old foundations. The work you have done matters. And you are a light showing the way for others who don’t yet feel like they know how to make their own worlds good.