#polyamory problems

What I’m finding, after spending time with many sex-positive enm/cnm, polyamorous and swinger types of folks is that self awareness is sorely lacking in the real world.

From jealousy to lack of integrity to flat out cheaters - I should say I’m surprised but that’s probably more my naivety in expecting others to have done the work that I’ve already done. (In fact, they have not done hardly any work).

I’ve had a “friend” break up with me after apparent jealousy that her friends were flirting with me or asking me out on dates (it fully reeks of insecurity, but what do I know). Then a guy broke up with me, out of the blue, only for me to discover a few weeks later that he was actually already fucking a friend of mine and he was also cheating on his spouse! (I had texted him a photo of me and said friend — he did not know we knew each other. He ghosted her. And I don’t mind sharing with my friend — but I don’t tolerate cheaters. I guess he knew the gig was up when he realized we knew of each other. 😂

*At a cute restaurant*

Tanjiro: Guys.... I need to ask you something. *gets down on the ground on one knee*

Kanao: Hm?

Genya: *Was just about to finish his food* Yeah Tanjiro?

Tanjiro: *Pulls out ring box with two rings* Will you both marry me? :<

*Awkward silence, everyone is now watching them*

Genya: *puts his food down* I can't, I'm sorry...

Tanjiro: Oh I understand- I'm sorry for-

Genya: Because I need you two... to marry me. *gets down on one knee and pulls out with two rings*

*Everyone gasps in shock, waiting for the girl's answer. Tanjiro is shocked, Kanao is even more shocked.*

Kanao: No I can't... I'm guys but....

Kanao: *Gets down on one knee and holds up a box with two rings inside*