#polarities

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Each person is has their own unique balance of masculine and feminine energies. These energies are completely different and yet we all embody a combination of both polarities.

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When it comes to handling stress, the way that the 𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮 will cope with this is to retreat and go inwards. 𝙁𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮 will reach out to her community to discuss problems. The 𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚, wants to get away from the problems until he has solutions while the 𝙛𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙚 wants to connect, and experience empathy and support around the problems.

When it comes to mistakes that have been made, the 𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮 is very action-driven to find the solution, while the 𝙛𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙚 tends to express their feelings & regret that the mistake even happened and then tries to make up for that mistake being made.

Everyone has both 𝙛𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙚 and 𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮, regardless of their gender. Finding a balance can help you feel better about yourself and have more positive interactions with others. Two people with similar energies can love each other, but they can never have passion.

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These traits come from two sources: genetics, and the influence of our parents, particularly the one of the opposite sex who is the first person we meet that is significantly different from us.

For example, young boys tend to be emotional, empathetic, and sensitive, which they learn from their mothers. Young girls are strong-willed and adventurous, which they learn from their fathers. Children are also affected by their parents’ Shadow sides.

As we grow out of infancy, we start seeking independence from our parents, and the easiest way to do this is to start fitting ourselves into the existing identity of gender roles, despite whatever natural 𝙛𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙚 and 𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮 we have.

For example: Young boys tend to be emotional, empathetic, and sensitive, which they learn from their mothers. Young girls are strong-willed and adventurous, which they learn from their fathers. Children are also affected by their parents’ Shadow sides.

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If you start to notice which energies are being used then you’re more likely to gain a self awareness that allows you to balance these divine energies a lot easier in your everyday life.

♀𝑫𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒚-

Intuitive, grounded, receptive, reflective, strong boundaries, empathetic, compassionate, magnetic, supportive, vulnerable, authentic, open, surrendered, flows through life effortlessly, trusting and creative.

𝑾𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒇𝒆𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒚-

Insecure, needy, codependency, manipulative, inauthentic, victim, over emotional.

♂𝑫𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒔𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒚-

Deeply present, doesn’t judge, supportive, has discipline, focused, logical, confident, protective, honest, accountable, humble boundaries, has integrity, responsible, offers stability and security.

𝑾𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒔𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒚- controlling, aggressive, withdraws, avoids, unstable, abusive, too competitive.

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The Fall of Lucifer by Édouard-Marie-Guillaume Dubufe (French, 1853–1909)

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“I watched him even then as he fell, his face undefeated, his eyes still proud” ― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 1: Preludes & Nocturnes

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