how to be too pretty to stress 𓏲 ๋࣭ ๑ིྀ

being "too pretty to stress" doesn't mean that nothing ever bothers you. it just means you stop letting everything have access to you. stress isn't always caused by big problems. sometimes it's the small things that we let sit in our mind for too long. so, before you react to anything, ask yourself... "does this deserve my energy?" ♡

this is how i keep my glow while protecting my peace ! ♡

mindset hygiene;

being too pretty to stress starts in your mind. your mental space needs care just like your skin or your room. you can do things like :

journaling, but instead of just talking about your day, do like prompts that are pretty heavy questions. you might just find out one of the biggest contributors to your stress.

when i feel really unconfident or sad for any reason, i like to stand in front of my mirror and breathe in and out slowly, smile and tell myself “i'm too pretty for this ”.

detoxing from social media is so so helpful, and not just for self comparison or negativity but just overall improving your life quality. recently i deleted all my social media except tumblr and its so amazing. i feel more productive, confident and just brighter, i definitely recommend it!

i love to use my perfume to “spray away my worries”, whenever i’m feeling down and i need a little pick me up, i grab my favourite perfume ( mod vanilla by ari is my signature ) and spray my stress away. it sounds silly but it makes me feel so light.

choosing ease;

take your time when dolling yourself up , like who really wants to overthink about the boy who hasn't texted you back or what someone posted on their story? turn your routines into little rituals instead of rushing through them. let yourself move slowly, intentionally and without guilt. let the only thing you’re occupied with be yourself !

like, why would a girl with glowing skin rush? she's exactly where she needs to be !

softness over stress;

if something drains you, release it.

if something stresses you, replace it with something lighter, not everything deserves your effort .

remember that not everyone needs your explanations, responses or availability. this is your life and you have the choice to block, mute or silence. peace is so much more important than politeness.

priority filters;

so, my personal priority filters are :

my peace

my beauty

my knowledge + education

my future.

these are things that i try to remember when i'm feeling stressed or just need a reminder of who i am and what i stand for, everyone elses will be different. but if it's not in this list, i'm not chasing it , or giving away my sanity.

a quick recommendation !

theres this post by @honeytonedhottie about keeping a dolly mind, i'll link it below, but she talks about how to create a dollhouse in your mind thats your safe space that you can go to when you're stressed out or overwhelmed. and i think thats so helpful.

how to keep a dolly mind - honeytonedhottie

thank u sm for reading ♡

hey lovelies! ✨

welcome to post 2 of my ✧ syllabus for sirens ✧ series! i've been sipping my morning coffee (with a splash of vanilla creamer because life's too short not to) and thinking about how to explain this concept that's been living rent-free in my mind lately…

✧ your mind is your most romantic accessory ✧

okay so hear me out. we spend sooo much time curating our aesthetics, right? the perfect bag, the dreamy lip color, the outfit that makes us feel like the main character. but what about our minds? what if we treated our thoughts with the same reverence we give to our favorite lipstick?

i was standing in front of my mirror last night, applying this gorgeous cherry red lip (the one i save for special occasions), when it hit me, i'm so careful with this lipstick. i store it properly, i apply it with intention, i show it off when i wear it. but do i treat my thoughts with the same care?

your mental glow-up is honestly the ultimate flex. like yes, that designer bag is stunning (and i want it too, trust me), but having a mind that sparkles? that's power that no one can take from you.

imagine if you treated every thought like it was precious. like it deserved to be stored in a velvet pouch, taken out carefully, admired in the light. because honestly? your ideas are magic. they're little spells you cast all day long.

some affirmations i've been whispering to myself lately:

my thoughts are velvet ribbons tying together moments of beauty

my ideas leave lipstick stains on the universe

my mind is a garden of possibilities, and i am the devoted gardener

my thoughts bloom like peonies, soft but impossible to ignore

speaking of gardens… have you ever thought about what you're planting in your mind? i've been so intentional lately about what i consume. the books on my nightstand (currently reading this dreamy poetry collection that makes me feel like i'm floating), the films i watch (only ones that leave me feeling inspired), the people i talk to (energy vampires need not apply).

it's like… if you wouldn't put cheap, toxic makeup on your face, why would you put cheap, toxic thoughts in your mind?

this week i've been making little lists in my journal of things that feel like mental silk, conversations that flow without effort, books that feel like a warm bath, music that makes my thoughts dance. i'm collecting them like pretty shells on a beach.

your soft assignment for this week (if you want to play along):

pick one delicious idea today. something that makes you feel powerful or pretty or both. maybe it's "my thoughts create my reality" or "i attract beauty effortlessly" or whatever feels true and gorgeous to you. repeat it like a mantra all day. write it on your mirror with a lipstick if you're feeling extra (i definitely am).

what's your favorite thought to wear lately? tell me in the comments!

xoxo, mindy 🤍

confessions of a blingybimbodoll episode 10 xoxo

preppy bimbo doll, here we go!

haiiii hunnie bunniez!!

i have some amazing, spectacular news!! i’m going to be able to go to university!! and yes, i honestly couldn’t care less about school (i only go to see my friends and wear pretty outfits), but academic validation is a real disease and unfortunately, i am a victim… which means when everyone else is revising, i too feel that i have to revise. and it paid off!! because my predicted grades are A*BB!! whoohoooooooooooooo!!! all of the revision tips and everything i said about doing work in school actually works, i promise you!! even if you feel like you aren’t good enough, or multiple people are belittling you, just keep going and maybe you’ll turn out like me, a doll with a good grade sheet!!

i’m totally motivated to start a bimbo brainz series!! what do you think??

xoxo, wonda

Hi, I’m back! There are no classes during this day of the week but I have 2 upcoming exams for tomorrow so I have to really prepare for that. Anyway, I’ve had my lashes extensions this morning just for the sake of feeling extra girly and fab. It’s wonderful how it made me instantly happier than I was when my lashes were plain Jane, haha. I went to a nail salon too to get poly gel extensions but kind of surprised that the nail tech wasn't around so I’ll just find time tomorrow morning to have an appointment to another nail salon. I tell you what, there are a lot of nail salons in my city but it’s hard to get a good one... or prolly I’m just really such a picky person and I want nothing but the best if I can actually afford it.