#pick mes

ALL YOU BITCHES ARE MALE-CENTERED. AS FUCK. I CAN’T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!!!

it is genuinely rare that i come across a “nakshatra observation” post or even general sidereal observations that don’t regurgitate these same bs pop astrology talking points. meanwhile, so much of the “discourse” still revolves around male validation, desirability politics, and internalized misogyny, and pretending to be “ascended.” you people are just repackaging the same patriarchal mindsets y’all claim to critique in pseudo-spirituality and calling it “empowerment.” but if the topic is still surrounding men, and especially women’s proximity to men, ESPECIALLY in the vapid and meaningless ways y’all discuss it, then guess what that makes all of you?

let me reiterate again, ALL of y’all are male centered and pick mes as fuck, because the entirety of most content i see on this app has to do with the most shallow and superficial aspects of vedic astrology. i thought we left that shit on twitter. #getoveryourselves

I’m a bisexual guy and call me self hating, but queer men actually piss me off. Not all but some of you are such pick mes. It’s insufferable. Lemme give you examples.

gay men:

Calling women who dare be fans of slash shipping fujoshits

every single mlm media has to have two buff sweaty guys grunting manishly cuz if it’s too feminine it’ll appeal to *gag* straight FEMALES

“I’m not one of THOSE gays”

“I can’t be in a relationship cuz it’s soooo hard in this commuinity because I actually want a husband and not a butt buddy”

Bi men:

“But guys I’m MOSTLY straight ok like I’m not like one of those gay ones. I’m MOSTLY STRAIGHT”

threatened by bi women coming out cuz it screws up the gender ratio of the bi community

used to be homophobic because he thought everyone was bisexual and people choose to date the same gender because they wanna feel special and never truly grew out of it

trans men (TW for misgendering):

“If she call herself a femboy, her gender dysphoria isn’t that bad”

hates non binary people. Specifically afab nb people.

complaining about getting “second hand gender dysphoria”

Went from “I’m not like other girls” to “I’m not like other queer men”

calling fem gay trans men fujoshis

If there’s one thing to take away from this it’s that just because you feel emasculated by your queerness doesn’t mean you’re any less of a man. So being lgbtq doesn’t give you a free pass for misogyny.

“White feminism is not actually an opposition to patriarchy. It's a partnership with it. Most white feminists are actually just patriarchists with softer branding.”

“They don't actually want to dismantle patriarchy. They simply want a better seat inside of it. And those of us with intersectionality inside feminist spaces have always said that feminists don't want to destroy power. They just want access to it. They want authority without any of the accountability.”

“White feminism, as it stands, does not teach any girls or women to end hierarchy. It just teaches them how to survive at the top of it.”

“This is what white feminism looks like at the level of instinct. You don't stop harm, you redirect it.”

“This is why white feminism struggles with intersectionality. Because intersectionality is not just a moral challenge. It is a threat to the business model. Because white feminism is not about ending power. Many white feminists are not anti-patriarchy. They are simply patriarchists who want access to the tools. They don't want to dismantle the system. They just want to be in charge of it.”

A few nights in my 20s, I’ve definitely been a why-not-me though.