#pick me

Just wanna vent.

So I'm short as fuck like barely touching five feet range, and most girls would find this resonating to the struggles of being that short as a young adult and an adult. It's both exhausting and tiring when people point out how short you're, an obvious thing that you have been told umpteenth times.

Growing up in a family as a younger sister where everything about you was always criticized, judged and shut down, had greatly affected my self-esteem and confidence to the point where I myself get surprised when people show me kindness or take my words seriously (which my parents or my sister never took, they just either brush off or laugh at me).

And this combined with my short height and skinny frame just made things even more worse. People always have this one dialogue 'with that height you'll need kids cloth to fit your size', so whenever I give the tailor to stitch pants and shirts I feel so insecure and under confident because I have to stitch every clothes to fit for my entire lifetime.

Also about dating, Istg I'm certain I'll never get a partner who will find me attractive, even if I did, our relationship will 100% will get judged by others if there's an huge size and height difference and telling them all the time I'm legal age when attacking my partner assuming they're a pdf for dating 4'9 feet girl. I don't want that, it's both sad and embarrassing for both me and my future partner.

And nowadays some girls don't even know what's the meaning of pick me is. Because everytime a short girl expresses her dissatisfaction or struggle they have to go through everyday because their genetics wasn't kind to them they're suddenly labeled as pick mes.

PICK ME GIRL IS A GIRL WHO PUTS OTHER WOMEN DOWN TO APPEAR BETTER AND DIFFERENT FOR MALE VALIDATION GET THAT THROUGH YOUR THICK SKULL. Not every girl is a pick me just because she is five feet or under.