#personalgoals

january edit

👉🏻 refrain from buying new clothing i have a lot of clothes, too many maybe and most i don’t even wear so i want to do a complete revamp of my wordrobe and sell a few of my clothing pieces and invest in pieces i will actually wear and that will last decades (i’m going to try buy second-hand)

👉🏻 no new perfumes unless i have finished a perfume from my ‘finish list’; flowerbomb, valentina, mon guerlain, and le parfume i love perfume and i don’t want to give up something that brings me so much joy and so this is the compromise and i also want to sell a few fragrances that i am not completely in-love with because i have close to 100... and i know i don’t need that many because i don’t use that many

👉🏻 skincare and beauty product categories are to be finished before repurchasing; if i’ve finished a cleanser and i still have a bottle somewhere, then that has to be used and finished before repurchasing anything, this applies to makeup too

👉🏻 no throwing away products just to buy something new! if i’d rather trash something than finish it, then i don’t really need that in my life (for example, if a shade of blush doesn’t suit me and i get rid of it then i can’t buy a new blush until then end of the month; this stops impulse buying and promotes try-before-you-buy and in turn more overall mindfulness to consuming products also will spark creativity)

👉🏻 focus on refining and perfect my routines i want to focus more on sticking to what i know and i want to be all quality not quantity (do i really need a ten-step skincare routine? or a bunch of hair serums? big no to both)

👉🏻 cannot buy anything on credit, on loans, no favours, no borrowing, no payment plans, no golden handshakes; if i can’t buy it out right on my own with my own money then it is not meant to be

👉🏻 take-out no buying food unless we’re actually leaving the house to go eat out; i still want to go on date nights with my boyfriend and not say no to dinner with friends

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Things that I hope to teach myself to do this Apocalypse Season and why:

Hunt, Skin, Butcher and Prepare Rabbits, Because they are pests and my brother will complain if we don’t cook meat but he can’t eat the only meat left in our local IGA.

How to sharpen a knife, see 1.

To Cut My Own Hair, because our local tech college is closed. I’m not paying a real hairdresser $95 so I’ll just do it myself and go to them if I really fuck up.

Astral Projection, Lucid Dreaming and Power Meditations, they’ll enhance my spell work and allow me to get out of the house without leaving the house, also maybe I can finally summon a housework demon and get dad off my back.

Summon Nana Yodgie’s Spirit, my grandma gave me her old phone number so I’m going to dial it on the spirit phone. Why? Because she’s the witchiest of my ancestors and grew up in the early to mid 1900s so she’s used to the society being a mess and would have some good advice, also I’m quite frankly a little upset that she hasn’t come to see me yet, and I realise that may be because she doesn’t know I exist but I feel hurt regardless.

Write decent short forms including, Poetry, Songs and Short stories. I just need to write, and if I can’t do it well then it will hurt to look myself in the eye. But that’s gonna take practice so here we go.

Draw, It’s a life skill that I really should have developed by now.

Jujitsu, I was meant to be learning this in class with Sensei but it’s been cancelled due to social distancing. Also I may yet have to become a post apocalyptic badass.

Gather Bush Tucker, A must if I’m to survive after the fall of chain supermarkets and the economy. Also I figure I can acquire a side for the Rabbit.

Make a Crow friend to bring me more shiny junk metal, using scrap rabbit meats.

Make things out of shiny junk.

(THESE ARE MY PERSONAL GOALS FOR ME. THEY'RE NOT THE GOALS I HAVE AS A MOM, OR WIFE. THEY'RE NOT FAMILY GOALS. THESE ARE THINGS I NEED TO DO FOR MYSELF. THEY'RE MY "ME" GOALS)

stop ONLY focusing on being a mom and wife. meaning, not fully lose my own identity and personal life, I have to be my own person and do things separate from mom and wife stuff. like YES I am a mom and wife but I'm not JUST a mom and wife.. you know ? (it's harder than it seems honestly but I'm trying)

get my permit.. license.. and then a car (DO NOT JUDGE ME. I am twenty-something years YOUNG and driving gives me pure anxiety)

I had a goal that I already completed but I'm so happy because it took me almost 5 years to do LOL just wanted to put that out there

get my damn teeth fixed cause lord knows mine are a MESS.. they're not BAD BAD but they're bad, feel me ?

be more positive, patient, and outgoing

finish / use things up BEFORE buying more. such as my books / planners, soap, and makeup

be more open to new things and experiences

listen to more music / start reading books again

practice my photography / makeup

I have weight goals but I'm not posting about the details of those weight goals lol but definitely be more body positive no matter how my body looks

learn new recipes

learn to let go (in many cases)

work on my sleep schedule (not doing too great on that since it's already past 1 am and I'm up posting)

POST MORE, BE CONSISTENT lol

for this week

daily: vitamins, skincare, meditate

write & send christmas cards 

have drinks with a friend