#personal observations

I've posted a lot of these and I always enjoy them myself, so I thought I might start adding some astrology notes here on Tumblr myself. 🙂😊🌌

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✨️♓️ Pisces placements (especially big 3) can manipulate their memories and thoughts subconsciously/unconsciously depending on the mood around them or how they feel that someone will take something.

For example, if they feel like a friend may take some news or truth that they say badly their mind will LITERALLY just erase the memory of the truth/news from their heads in that moment so when they say "I don't know." They actually DON'T KNOW in that moment. (But they can remember later...)

✨️♏️ Scorpios who have been hurt and are unhealed can AND WILL put up walls around themselves so tight that they will suffocate behind them and have no idea who they really are anymore if they're not careful. They may convince themselves that they are always the victim, but really they will push other people into a narrative of either doing everything their way or being the "bad guy." And they may be so convinced of this narrative that they don't even consciously realize that they are doing this.

Their emotions can be powerful and cloud their self-judgment.

✨️♌️ Leos (!) can be either some of the most wonderful people that you will every meet or absolute nightmares. Distrusting or paranoid Leos can turn into bullies really fast and have no remorse for their actions if they deem you unfit. When they are healthy they will happily shower you with radiant love, but when they are not... you should exit stage left while you still can.

✨️♋️ Cancers, stop holding something that your partner did 2 weeks ago against them only to bring it up in an argument in another 2 weeks as a "gotcha" moment that they don't really care about you and COMMUNICATE WHAT YOU REALLY FEEL. Give them a chance to love you without you have to play emotional games with you all the time and you might be more pleasantly suprised than you would expect.

✨️♉️ Taurus - A lot of people give Scorpio flack for being secretive and mysterious, but if a Taurus doesn't want you in their life or doesn't want you to know something about themselves- you won't. Plain as that.

✨️♈️ Aries Moons (specifically) can be very impulsive when they want something. They won't think twice about whether or not something was meant for them or whether or not it is their right to take it- they just will if they want it. No thought or consideration behind just, I want it- I have it.

✨️♐️Sagittariuses - I see a lot of people try to say that Sagittariuses and Sagittarius energy is secretly dark and moody or secretive underneath the surface, but that's really more Scorpio or Capricorn's turf.

Sagittarius' real problem is that they are always trying to avoid or distract from the pain of life or the hardships of it.

Remember Sagittarius, humor is not the same thing as processing your pain if you do it all the time to avoid what you don't want to see or feel.

✨️♍️ Virgo - I'm probably going to get some flack for this, but I think that Virgos are the most empathetic of the earth signs, especially for people at large, or people that they don't know. I know that lots of people will probably say that it is Taurus, and yes they certainly love the people in their close circle thoroughly, but outside of that they probably won't care that you exist.

Virgos on the other hand will stop and try to help you(in the best way that they know how- with a critique) if they feel like you are struggling with something. Even if they don't know you. That's empathy. They might not always be empathetic in a way that other people receive well, but it's still empathy.

The way I see it is- A Taurus MAY or may NOT notice that you're struggling and if they like you they might help, a Virgo WILL notice you struggling and TRY to help, and a Capricorn WILL notice you struggling and will just watch from a distance because it's not their problem to solve and they typically don't care about you enough to do different.

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That changed everything about how I meet my practice and myself 💌

Tarot is not prediction it is pattern recognition of psyche states

One of the biggest shifts is understanding that tarot works less like forecasting and more like mapping psychological patterns in real time.

Cards don’t “tell the future” in a fixed way; they reflect:

cognitive-emotional loops

relational dynamics

unconscious attitudes

Meaning comes from structure + intuition together, not intuition alone

A major misconception is “just trust intuition.” In practice, strong reading comes from structured symbolic literacy + intuitive synthesis.

Without structure, readings become projection. Without intuition, they become mechanical.

Tarot is not a guide: it is a mirror

Eventually, tarot stops being something you “ask answers from” and becomes a structured self-reflection interface.

It mirrors:

subconscious beliefs shaping your decisions

emotional patterns repeating in relationships

unspoken tensions between desire, fear, and action

The insight is not “the card told me what to do,” but rather this is what is already active within me, now made visible.

This is a great question, actually. Personally, I don't like that many het ships, especially canon ones. This is likely due to a personal bias from being primarily Achillian/mlm in my own attractions. However, a large part of the reason why I don't like het ships is because of how nuance is erased.

Let me elaborate-- so many times in fics and ships, I see two characters who are a het ship. Even if their canon material has them very specifically characterized, they are reduced from their characters into what I see as little soulless puppets. Even if a character has expressed an aversion to touch, relationships, has had trauma, has personal preferences, ect, these things are completely ignored, erased, or "worked around" for the sake of making quick, cheap-feeling fanfiction that is usually smut.

And while I understand that almost every writer is guilty of OOC writing or self-indulgence, I just feel like writers who are not heteronormative, not cisgender, or not neurotypical keep the nuance even when displaying the characters in a wide variety of situations, be it AUs, canon divergence, ect. Additionally, there is often more build-up to any spicy scenes, and spicy scenes included emotional undercurrents or keep in mind the characters' pasts and personalities.

Take my Big Bang Theory ( the sitcom, not the scientific belief ) example. I looked for Sheldon Cooper x Amy Farrah Fowler fanfiction, because I find their relationship to be a very nuanced and in-depth one despite the shallowness of their media. What I found was quick oneshots of various sexual situations. There was a complete lack of fanfiction dealing with emotions, trauma, domestic life, interpersonal relationships, Sheldon and Amy with the rest of their friend group, ect. And despite Sheldon's almost constant aversion to sexual intimacy ( although not complete aversion, as they were canonly confirmed to have children later in epilogue of the series ) was erased and he was turned into a blatantly dominant figure. Now, I won't go on some kind of rant about the patriarchy, and I have nothing against a traditionally masculine man or a traditionally feminine woman, but I hope that you can see how there is an issue when characters’ entire beings revolve around being a "man" or a "woman."

Now, this is obviously an incredibly specific example, but it is the most recent I have found. Others include Percy Jackson x Annabeth Chase, Hiccup x Astrid, ect. Although there ARE fanfics with good characterization, narrative-driven plots, and emotional value ( and therefore why I will never call ALL heterosexual fanfiction hetslop ), they often are highly outnumbered by fanfictions that go along the lines of "pretty girl... and a boy... they should clearly be together because they are of the opposite genders and therefore need nothing else in common." This seems to happen even when the in-canon ship is relatively well-written ( such as Percabeth ).

Now consider the most popular mlm ships: Destiel, Hannigram, Johnlock, Jayvik, Ghoap, Hucklerobby/Hucklerabbot/Rabbot, ect. The plethora of highly emotionally fanfiction is amazing. So much of it revolves around the pasts, traumas, and personalities of the characters, and the characterization remains similar even across AUs and various writers. My hypothesis is that this is due to the social antinormativity of non-het ships. These characters often have faced struggles due to not being heteronormative, or are more aware of the nature of their relationships. Even when exploring explicit scenes, these characters are more likely to be aware of how these scenes are affecting their relationships and themselves.

< This can also most likely work with moon house placements too. >

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Oh boy, this is a long unfinished draft i’m coming back to.

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4th house lord in 1st house

You either love being by yourself and hanging out with yourself or/and you enjoy doing things that can improve you in every way. Like-so getting ready and etc. Kinda Emma Chamberlain vibes okayyy.

4th house lord in 2nd house

You had/still have an comfort item or a special stuffed animal growing up, didn’t you. You most likely also like when everything is planned out for the day or for the event that ur going to do and it’ll be inside ur comfort zone. You like to have everything “laid out.”

4th house lord in 3rd house

You either love being by yourself or you absolutely hate it. Nothing in between. It’s up to your mind and how it works. It’s either your bestest friend forever or your worst enemy. You most likely were/are close to your siblings or overall friends and find comfort in these people. You like to write out your thoughts or be creative with expressing them since you’ve figured out what you feel might be little too complicated for others and writing it out can bring you comfort.

4th house lord in 4th house

Isn’t this too obvious? You obviously like to spend time around your family or if your 4th house is in a water sign you also probably just like to sit and observe your family in a way. Not in a creepy way. It’s just unexplainable. Something such as Elio from “Call Me by Your Name” You most likely have a very good bond with your mother and female figures around you who have been around for a long time and are most likely your comfort zone.

4th house lord in 5th house

You are one energetic soul. If not physically then your mind will always be very vibrant and active. You most likely find comfort in some particular activities you do. Which can also mean hot girl walks as in clearing your head when stressed and etc. You probably also liked to draw and do the arts in many forms. That’s what let you express yourself and let stuff out which also brought you even the slightest bit of relief and comfort.

4th house lord in 6th house

A little bit like the 2nd house, you like to spend your time working on yourself as a way of escapism. Also really like to be outside, around the nature and most likely had a very great bond with your pets and other outside world animals. You probably prefer animals over humans. (And I love you for that. ) Having a routine or a planned out schedule is probably inside your comfort zone.

4th house lord in 7th house

You most likely find comfort in expressing yourself. Especially in clothes and outfit options. Also guiding others has probably given you fulfillment. You had one unique mind growing up. You also found comfort through acknowledgments from others when completing or doing something.

4th house lord in 8th house

You never liked to get too comfortable and always needed a new thing or a change in the way you do or feel. You’ve at least at some point loved spending time just sitting in your room in silence by yourself at night or in the dark and found comfort in your own company. It’s also giving quite traumatized child isolation vibes if you ask me, but not always in a bad way.

4th house lord in 9th house

You are one moving soul too in a way. You felt fulfillment when learning about new stuff or doing a workbook of some sort. If you also were/are religious then you might’ve found more comfort than other people in the religion’s ‘god’. You also probably found out that having different experiences and people from different cultures and different backgrounds can make you feel comforted.

4th house lord in 10th house

Your not direct priority has not been finding comfort. You can feel fulfillment and comfort when getting the recognition for your work, whatever it has been. I personally think that deep down your family and close ones are pretty much comfort place for you even if it’s subconsciously, but you are pretty materialistic in such fields.

4th house lord in 11th house

You always are trying to find comfort in your way and probably have been on the hunt for it at some point in your life. You like to have or happen to have your points differently as in it could be a stuffed animal or something non materialistic. We’ll never know. You just find comfort in what you find comfort in. I personally would like to point out that Grandparents can also be one of the comforts for you. I really would like to learn about your experiences.

4th house lord in 12th house

Oh my poor baby. I have a slight feeling you might have been neglected as a child in a way especially with emotionally non present caretakers/parents. You probably have a tendency to isolation and using it as a coping mechanism. You felt comfortable and comforted in your head and mind since it’s a mystic place. All i have to say is stick to your guts. Love you.

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I in no means mean to offend anyone and if these observations do not apply to you then it’s completely fine. You can always find a more pleasant post. <33

Let me know if you agree with my words or have your points to add, I absolutely love reading all of the comments and communicating, so let me know your point of view!

See you next time!

Love, Tsunami