This is something I'm just generally curious about as someone who isn't in a feedist relationship: how exactly does feedism shape your relationship with your partner on a day-to-day basis? This kink is pretty all-encompassing for a variety of reasons obvious but not many people talk about just regular living life as a feedist couple outside of just intimate moments. How does feedism define or shape how you love and interact with your partner? Feel free to ignore or delete if this feels out of line to ask!
Not out of line at all, I love being tmi (and talking about my partner 😛). We don't do a scene (feeding or stuffing or feedism talk) every time we get intimate, but I would say there's body worship involved every time. I'm always playing with his belly during sex. I usually playfully tweak his love handles or ass etc whenever he passes by me. I love biting him playfully (NOT in a sexy way lmao more of an annoying gremlin way) and he lets me chew on his sideboob/tummy. Sometimes when he's eating I'll playfully encourage him to eat more or ask him if he wants dessert. Eating more is always a good thing to us, so it's a light type of flirting that we'll casually engage in private. I don't always watch him eat and he doesn't stuff himself at every meal, every day, or even every week. He's not interested in gaining weight (or losing); he just wants to do whatever his body wants. I don't push him to gain weight and I'd still be happy with him/his body/our relationship if he lost weight. If he was thinner I might want to engage in my kink in other ways, like more frequent stuffing. Sometimes he puts on old clothes for me that we have just for scenes. On special occasions I'll ask him to eat a ton and he'll playfully bargain with me for what he gets in return. He also has his kinks that I do my best to indulge in return to keep us both fulfilled. We don't involve our kink much outside of the privacy of our home - maybe in restaurants, but never in front of others or in a way other people would notice. We align pretty well in kinky ways. It might be less kink on a daily basis than I fantasize about, but of course that isn't realistic, and I'm so lucky & grateful to have a partner that is sex and kink positive and engages in a kink that ultimately changes his body. I was insecure and worried about freaking him out at first, and even a couple of years into our relationship there were still things that I felt were too shameful to bring up. Now that we've been together for 6 years I feel like we have a really solid dynamic to incorporate our fetishes.
