‘For those trying to find their voice in a world where they have to speak louder, just so they can be heard’ – Ilana Estelle
When I found out I had cerebral palsy, I wanted to do something positive for the first time. I needed to get to grips with and explore my disability for the first time. It wasn’t a decision taken lightly, but it was necessary if at the age of 46 I was going to learn about my disability, learn about myself. I went from nothing to something with The CP Diary blog, and for the first time I was able to identify with my disability and my experiences.
Writing a book to get to know me, to understand my disability meant I would have my voice heard. It was important I come face to face with my disability, and for the first time. As a child with no voice, if writing a book meant me being able to come face to face with my disability, then it’s something I needed to do. I am sure anyone in my circumstances would have done the same thing.
But honesty requires us to be brave, for us to turn our lessons into universal truths and that is what I have done. People will always have opinions on other people’s writing, but an author needs to be true to themselves. They need to be comfortable, they need to understand their life.
Finding my voice, having a voice for the first time, has finally given me the freedom to choose. However hard or uncomfortable your journey is for others, it’s your journey. You must choose what is right for you. It is important for us to have people in our lives who care and who will listen, and who don’t stand in judgment.
Truthfully, I am relieved. Being able to choose, I am proud of what I have achieved, what I have been able to accomplish, what I needed to do for myself, to find the true me, without having to go to the grave without. Through my book I show you how.
My blog and my book is dedicated to all those who have yet to have their voices heard. That through my words that it happens for you too.
For anyone wishing to buy my book, it is available in a bookstores online and it is also available on Amazon – amzn.to/2qrpiy8 UK or http://amzn.to/2WPE2Vy US.
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