I love the show Our Flag Means Death so much.
I love that Stede was brave enough to leave the toxic society that had failed him and so many others - to make a better life or die trying. And he succeeded! He made a better society. He found love. He inspired the other characters on the show to be better people and he inspired me to be brave in my own life. I am forever grateful.
I love that Ed, who had lived with abuse and hardship and seemed so isolated when we met him, had kept his optimism, his sense of playfulness. He fought against a negative self image and a belief that he was undeserving of happiness. He tried some self care and he too found happiness - and also the love of his life.
I love the crew - all with their own problems, but who also find themselves and grow; a good part of it being down to Stede's philosophy. Jim learns that revenge will twist you and is freed by letting go. Pete learns to be gentle, love and show care for people and is so loved in return. Lucius goes through hard times but survives and learns what is truly important. Olu shows us a true supportive friendship. Frenchie grows into responsibility with compassion. Roach knows his worth. Buttons shows Ed that change is possible and gets to change himself to be with his own true love. Wee John gets to be himself to the full and to encourage others to do the same. The Swede gains confidence and learns he is desirable. Izzy learns the value in belonging. Fang is so caring and will stand up for what he believes. Archie gives us confidence and enthusiasm. Jackie is simply a goddess. Mary B takes the opportunity freedom awards her to grab a life she was otherwise denied. Anne and Mary are able to start afresh. Auntie learns that a bit of softness is important too, and Zheng that she can have it.
We see a group of people grow from a group of individuals into a supportive community. We see so much varied and wonderful representation where people learn that they can be themselves without labels or judgement. And they thrive! And what's better, they seem just like us.
There is so much joy and positivity in this show. If you embrace Stede's supportive philosophy you thrive. If you reject it and try to maintain the poisonous status quo you mostly end up dead. They are good to each other. They support each other. They show what it means to be part of a crew. And there are lessons and inspiration in it for all of us.
I just really, really love this show.
