#nullsex

and it's not like that is necessarily wrong. i don't want phallo. i don't want scrotal implants. i don't want labia. i don't want the ability to become pregnant. i am sex repulsed.

but the fact that i could just say fuck it and go full nullsex is even more relieving to me. the idea of just. nothing. never needing to worry about it again. physically denying the pressure to have a normative intimate & sexual relationship or family structure.

at the same time it's a huge decision to make and i probably wont have medical clearance for a long time (if ever) but. idk. idk when the time is to contact a surgeon about this let alone for a double mastectomy w/o nipple grafts and body-sculpting (more pressing dysphoria).

I'm one of the head mods of the server TS island. Due to the lack of servers for transsexuals that aren't overrrun with tucutes and ban outspoken transsexuals as well as transmedicalism and transmedicalists, I thought it would be nice to share it here incase some transsexual sees it.

It's only been started on the 9th of this month, and already has about 200 members and 70k messages in total.

I do enjoy lurking here and reading posts though . Figured there is a sort of gap when it comes to transmedicalist casual spaces.

We have vetting to prevent raids and tucutes from entering, but are pretty speedy at letting new applicants through.

I completely agree! There should be mindful bodily autonomy for all, particularly minorities who need it. The state of trans healthcare in the UK is laughable (because if you don't laugh, you'll cry.) Nonbinary healthcare in the UK simply doesn't exist, let alone anywhere else. The extra hoops nonbinary people have to go through to explain ourselves to binary cisgender people leads to many more roadblocks at the final destination of getting hormonal treatment, leading many to have to simplify their existence for binary comfort. If nonbinary people transition in the UK, we are automatically issued a new NHS number and gender certificate that is the opposite of our AGAB. How outrageous. The social binarisation of our transitions is also outrageous, with binary trans people also engaging in bioessentialist and sex binarist thought that completely isolates medically transitioning nonbinary and intersex people.

This let alone with salmactive and nullsex bottom surgeries being scarcely known about and mocked within the trans community (calling it mutilating. How's that for ironic!). And all this is ignoring the horrific waiting times, the debates, the forced unexistence or hyperexistance, the not being taken seriously, the being taken as a joke that all trans people experience. And on top of this, people thinking nonbinary means non-dysphoric or non-transitioning or not wanting to medically transition. Goodness gracious, it's a lot.

Interabsent / Intertere

( ID: Two images of a flag with seven horizontal stripes, in the following colors: Yellow, light green, muted pink, purple, muted pink, light green and yellow. In the center, there's a dark purple circle. On the first image, there's a muted pink border around it. End ID. )

"An intersex person who considers themself as sexless/of a null sex. like agenital/angenital, agonadal/angonadal, nullo/teresex, divisian/teretere, nullsex, etc. but less specific (and Intersex-exclusive). Also it only covers people who consider their sex null/sexless, regardless if they are really sexless. It could be for any reason (biosex traits, psychological, social, monosomy, etc.)"

The terms were defined by Anon, but I coined Interabsent / Intertere and made the flags! They're based off of the Carpenter Intersex flag as well as the general Sexless flag.

Help with ALT text and ID is appreciated! Free for anyone to use but please respect that it is Intersex-exclusive and do not be weird if you are perisex.

I want to try to describe myself despite I don't have enough words even in my native language

Usually I use "monster", "dragon", "shadow". Sometimes I want to use "demon" but absolutely without Christian contex

In a manner I shapeshift - I can change my size or become more humanlike (similar body but with fangs, feather and claws and without face at all). I can be smaller than my human body or bigger than the Earth...

So. I'm absolutely black, maybe with dark blue and dark purple shades. I have wings - with feather or leather one, it depends. I have no genitalia, sex or gender in my true form. Horns, claws, fangs. Different kind of moves definitely strange for humans.

Viramoric: a diamoric term for non-binary, genderqueer, and binaryn't people exclusively or primarily attracted to men.