there is NO radfem more unshakable than an ex/current SWer radfem. you will never understand the rotten, disgusting underbelly of masculinity the way someone does when their literal survival depended on catering to it.
this idea that women just “choose” SW on a whim or because they’re wanting to cater to the male gaze?? delusional. at least 90% of women end up there because they don’t have other options. this is my personal opinion as a former sex worker who used it to escape homelessness. most of my co-workers were single mums struggling to feed their kids. full stop.
and YES you’ll see women online saying “i love it, i chose it, it’s empowering.” but you’re forgetting: that’s the JOB. the fantasy is the product. the whole point is to make men believe it’s fun, empowering, and a choice.
and sure, there are always tourists who get tricked into thinking it’s quick cash because of what they see online. but they find out real fast that the “fantasy” was NEVER meant for women. it was always, always meant to lure in men.
