Jan 1
i hate when people are "smarter" than me but i also hate when people are stupider than me. oh well.
I feel you anon, I feel you.
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i hate when people are "smarter" than me but i also hate when people are stupider than me. oh well.
I feel you anon, I feel you.
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The npd urge to become famous and Visibly Better Than Everyone™️ vs the stpd urge to move into the woods and never speak to a human person again.
It pisses me off so bad seeing other pwNPD (not talking about this blog) talking so openly about their sick fantasies, how they don't actually care about their friends, how they're so willing to hurt people and lie, etc. And I know it's just their disorder disordering, and my disorder disordering, but I still can't help but look at it all and think HAH, I'm so much better at this disorder than you. I get narc highs from posting art and successfully comforting my friends. I protect my reputation by being a genuinely kind and endearing person. I may care in a different way due to my lack of empathy, but I'm working to improve and I'm trying harder than any of those fucks. In fact, I'm working harder and doing better than the average empath. Get on my level
And to my fellow compassionate narcs on here, or just narcs who strive to do the right thing for any reason, you're fucking awesome and you ARE good people and I appreciate you
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Doing my own confession for once. I hate being a narc and an artist sometimes holy shit. I'm trying to improve my anatomy work by doing studies and every tutorial I watch makes me want to sob because mine isn't professional grade off the bat or looks all that good.
My own aspd/npd confession whoops:
I genuinely get so awkward when people vent to me, especially without like... asking first. Like, I cannot just pull sympathy out of my ass on a whim babe. I need a warning and at least five minutes of prep time. This needs to be an open book test. I gotta have my notes!!
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out of curiosity, is it okay to use the term narcissistic to describe someone? I know it’s not right to call someone a narcissist unless they actually do have npd, but doesn’t everyone have narcissistic traits?
I mean. Personally I wouldn't. There's like infinitely better terms to use. Yes, everyone has narcissistic traits, to be human is to be somewhat narcissistic, however calling someone narcissistic is kinda just inherently linked to a preconceived notion of a bad person which just adds to the stigma of NPD in general.
It's one thing for like a professional psychologist to make a professional observation to say, this person (or character) exhibits narcissistic traits, it's another to use it in casual speak or to describe someone when you're not a professional. If you're not a psychologist or have NPD I prefer to leave it on the high shelf until society as a whole knows that narcissists aren't inherently bad.
Narcissistic traits and any variation of the word has bad connotations no matter how you phrase it and people will get an idea based on NPD stereotypes, so generally I avoid it. Unless it's being used by professionals, I always side eye others who use it to describe a character (exception for those with npd headcannoning characters n stuff), person, etc. since I assume they'll mean it as an insult or they're thinking of what's essentially a caricature of the disorder.
Some alternative terms to use for certain traits of narcissism:
Egotistical
Egomaniacal
Self-absorbed
Self-centered
Vain
Entitled
Egoist
Has a fragile ego
Apathetic
But at the end of the day, you can use it if you really want, I'm not gonna be able to stop you nor is it worth my time. This is all just my 2 cents. I personally wouldn't, but you're a person so you can come to your own conclusions based on what I've said.
i want to be loved by the entire world unconditionally. i want to be the center of the entire world without my needing to do anything and it makes me sick i even think this way
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I don’t trust people that headcanon characters with NPD and other disorders, only to talk about how evil, horrible or abusive the character is without diving the nuances of it.
Truth nuke