It's crucial to know and understand what makes you feel secure. Failure to understand yourself can lead to choas and pain. Sometimes we fall into the trap of loving others beyond what we are capable within our own strength. This often was modelled in childhood and we grow up with a wrong idea of self sacrifice especially in the church setting. Jesus said we must love our neighbors as we love ourselves. Far too many times we neglect ourselves for the sake of loving others. This is not healthy. Regret, resentment and bitterness will grow from this place of tainted love. Today I encourage you to evaluate the boundaries in your life. Ask yourself the touch questions. Now reinforce or replace healthy boundaries. P. S- Don't build a wall, just a boundary line! . . #pursuepurpose #boundariesareimportant #notoxiclove #loveyourself #loveyourneighborasyourself #yourscarshispurpose #brokennesstowholeness #brokennesshasasecret #breatheinpeacebreatheoutlove #jesusisahealer #knowthyselffirst #vincywriters #author2020 #amwritingnonfiction #writingcommunityinstagram https://www.instagram.com/p/CIFuHTwgOAx/?igshid=bfta0mls6rqe