Jul 1
The fact that being enby comes with its own set of rules/expectations for gender presentation sucks. If I wanted to have to dress/act/exist a certain way to have my gender be seen as valid I wouldnt have picked the label that means "nah I'm not doing that".
Nowadays it makes me uncomfortable to use they/them pronouns because everyone expects them to come with like a green-haired coffee shop barista with black nails and 30 peircings, and like. That's just a third gender. You've made a third gender on the binary and assigned it to the label that literally means "I don't sit on the binary".
#dont even get me started on people claiming enby people owe others androgy#If someone who clearly looks like and dresses like and presents like a binary gender goes βhey I'm nonbianaryβ you go βokay!β#Thats it#Not βbut you look like a man/womanβ#Not βare you even trying?β#Stop trying to shove us in a gender box just because the box is new doesn't mean its not a box#Alphabet rearranged#Nonbianary#lgbtq#Enby#gender nonconforming#nonbinary#non bianry#genderqueer#trans#queer#queer community#lgbtqia#lgbtq community#also while we're at it#Can we talk about the racism#POC enby people I love you and am here for you we deserve ao much more than this
