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Hello everyone! I had a new idea for a februari challenge 🌟
Within fandom, there’s a big focus on romantic and sexual relationships, in my opinion sometimes to the detriment of other types of relations. Friendships, familiar bonds, queer platonic characters and aspec characters more often than not get the short end of the stick in these kind of spaces. I fear this notion reinforces amatonormativity and makes fandom spaces less comfortable for aspec folks.
In fanfiction spaces, gen fics are a good way to filter out romantic content! I love ao3’s tagging and filtering system in particular, as you can look up fanfics that explore non romantic relationships easily. I appreciate the ampersand and slash differentiation.
I would like to take the idea of gen fics further, and develop the presence of non romantic or sexual relationships in fandom spaces more. For example, I want to coin the term “gen art”! This would be fanart, that much like gen fics, explores characters and character bonds that aren’t focused on romance. I think it would also be great to develop a tagging system for platonic bonds. Creating this type of language within fandom is the first step to changing the relationship hierarchy we so often see there.
For this challenge, the idea is that for every day you create a gen fan work inspired by the prompt of that day. This can be art as the name suggests, but any type of media is welcome! Fanfics, art, edits, poems, moodboards, photography, the sky’s the limit. Don’t worry about skipping any days or changing up the prompts! This is all in good fun ✨💕
You are very welcome to join in! Please tag your posts with #genartfebruari so I can find them and reblog them 💖 I will be reblogging all entries! I'm of course joining myself too 😊
Even if you don’t plan to join, I would very much appreciate reblogs as it would help spread the word 🙏
It would be really nice if we could make this into a solid thing together. We could have fun creating together, but also try our hand at changing fandom spaces to be more safe and comfortable for everyone ✨
Non-affectionate, nonaffective, or nonaffectional: not affectional/affectionate/affective; not experiencing affection; unaffectionate/unaffectional/unaffective.
Overlap with nonoriented/non-oriented (unoriented), anattractional, loveless, nonamorous, afidelitous, agamous, panaspec, etc.
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Monogamy is so heavily idealized, no wonder why many find it hard to believe that there are people out there who actually prefer polyamory or nonamory.
Many people believe that there is the one for all of us. That true love will bring us eternal happiness. That everyone has a soulmate. That this particular person is their other half. Even if their partner is toxic and bad for them, some believe that their relationship is still worth fighting for because they feel like fate brought them together. That after you find the right person, you'll finally get your happily ever after.
Having this kind of mindset is not only harmful towards individuals who don't seek monogamous relationships but also towards those who do seek them. Pursuing or staying in a relationship that might not be good for you just because you believe you will get your own perfect love story is not right. And it's also not right to force others to seek that kind of fairytale in their lives as well, it's not only wrong but also disrespectful if they're not even monogamous in the first place.
It shouldn't be unusual to love more people and pursue relationships with them at the same time. The whole concept of the one is what makes it seem unusual and not so ideal to many people. And since there are people who believe it's impossible to live a fulfilling life without a partner, the ones who don't want one are also seen as strange because they're seemingly 'getting in a way of their own happiness'.
There is nothing wrong with searching for that one person who you intend to share your life with. But it's very important to always choose what's the best for you instead of letting the destiny choose instead. And you also don't have to make your love story nearly as ideal as potrayed in media for it to still work in a way that makes you fulfilled.
That is what non-monogamous people also do. They just live their lives in a way that makes them fulfilled instead of what is deemed ideal by society and in media. You're not unusual for not living in this exact way that is deemed ideal and so aren't they.
Sometimes I wish there was more like nonamory content? Not just loveless, but specifically non-partnering/nonamorous content. Like don't get me wrong, I enjoy queerplatonic positivity, it's great, it's necessary. But sometimes I feel so alone, like I don't really have a future because even in the aromantic community there's such a focus on having a qpr or platonic partner
