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So, I love the concept of the Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord Tool, but my brain has a hard time navigating the layout of the official version, and it contained a lot of things that weren’t relevant to my close intimate relationships. I ended up creating this simplified version to specifically suit my own needs. Some people in my FB groups have greatly appreciated the easy-to-read boxes, so I figured I’d offer it here too! (I included a filled out version for anyone wondering how to use it.) Also, remember, this is good for ALL types of relationships, you don’t to be a relationship anarchist to benefit from this kind of transparency!
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Political nonmonogamy - PNM (in Portuguese: não monogamia política - NMP): the articulation of an anti-monogamism (or anti-monogamy) linked to the construction of a life project and sociopolitical identity guided by a collective and emancipatory thought of non-monogamy.
This concept is similar to relationship anarchy (RA), but not to be confused with ethical non-monogamy (ENM).
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i'm a minor
i'm a transmasc demiboy
I'm bisexual and aromantic. mostly experience alterous attraction. might be ace. also non-monogamous (probably, idk). i'm still figuring shit out
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Sorry for the brief hiatus. I had two breakups, well, the pandemic, and a lot of personal work to get done. You all are my one big family! Can't wait to post and share more with you all.
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It’s funny because it’s true. And it can happen even to the most experienced poly people.
Feel the emotions, let them happen. Then, when you’re in a better head space, examine what may have triggered those emotions. Maybe you can bring this up to your partner.
In the meantime, I would suggest the following:
- If you know that your partner is planning a date, try and hang out with a friend or one of your other partners during the time of the date. You can also spend the day treating yourself. Go to the gym, make a good meal, watch a favorite movie, read a good book, take a nap, get your nails done, etc. Get your mind off your partner and what they’re doing.
- Come up with a game plan with your partner with texting. Does your partner want you to text them throughout the date or would they rather be left alone? If you text your partner and they don’t respond right away, are you going to panic?If that’s the case, maybe don’t message them. (As it turns out, my partner likes receiving messages from me when he is on his dates with other people. I think it brings him comfort). If your partner doesn’t want messages from you, maybe they can message you periodically. “Hey baby, just checking in. I love you.”
- Schedule time with your partner before or after their date. Get some cuddle time in. Ask for their undivided attention. If you need a little extra love because you’re nervous for their date, let them know.
- Figure out what you want to know about the date. Maybe right now you’re not really interested in knowing anything. That’s okay. If you want to know a little but nothing too specific, that’s okay too. Also keep in mind that your partner may not want to talk about all the details, either.
- Don’t forget that this other person is human, too. It is easy to view your partner’s partner as your competition. As if they are a perfect, gorgeous person. Someone you could never compare to. You might think “maybe they are prettier, funnier, smarter, than I am. Maybe they are better at sex...”
Stop.
Stop all those thoughts, because when you get right down to it, they are human just like you. And your partner loves you, don’t forget that either. <3
Brittany: The prominent[self identity] is being Black, the second prominent is being a woman, being intelligent, being disabled, being fat, and also being a femme sometimes. So I identify with all those things. I struggle with my sexuality because of my religion which is not uncommon, I've grown from Christianity to spirituality because I feel like I don't have space to exist in my religion, which is unfortunate, but a reality. Yeah and then I also identify with being a submissive, that's also very prevalent for me, but submissive in the sense of compassion I guess so it feels like the title doesn't really feel like a role, it feels like a part of me. Lynn: I don't really have a lot of super-serious struggles like that. You know what I mean? I mean clearly I'm not a lot of those things [laughter], but one of my struggles is my age. I'm 41 now, but I've been in this lifestyle for over ten years. One thing I love about it is that I'm still finding out new things about myself, you know. I hope that never stops. But other than that I just really just try to be unapologetically me, you know what I mean? I guess one of my struggles would definitely be that I have an issue with sharing my life with my family. They're very, very religious.
All Polyamorous/Non-Monogamous people are LGBTQ+, just because they are Polyam/Non-Mono and if they want to be. They are not monogamous so they are LGBTQ+ by that reason alone.
