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College Professor!Ari x College Librarian!Reader

Turtleneck sweaters. Pencil Skirts. Glasses.

He visits the library whenever he can just to see her. Even offers to help out whenever she’s working late to organise books. Reminds her that they need to be silent 😉

I just wrote a drabble solely because someone reblogged and left a comment on a series and it inspired me to write a bonus drabble

That bonus drabble would not exist if it wasn’t for the comment.

Comments inspire writers, even comments as simple as “ah I love these two!” Can remind a writer how much they love them too and the cogs get turning!

Okay so I found this cool etsy shop with the coolest stuff and I just HAVE to show you guys because you guys will LOVE THESE TOO!

okay so first we have:

The Avengers Tour Tee!!!

It’s so cool and has the OG 6 plus some amazing additions (aka Bucky!!!!)

But you guys aren’t ready for the second tee!!

Ready?

THE CHRIS EVANS ERA TOUR TEE!!!!

SCREAMING, CRYING, THROWING UP!!!

We get ANDY! SMA SHOOT! FLOOFY HAIR! THE FINGER BITE! THE SUNGLASSES!

I’ve officially died and gone to heaven!

The link to this store is here and if you’re a Sebastian Stan, RDJ or Loki Fan there’s tees for you too! There’s so much cool stuff and I’ve just seen a Steve one which will be brought when I next get paid!

On one hand it felt so good to write because it had the scene that i first thought of when coming up with this series but sad that it’s finally written and I don’t have it to look forward to and also because the next part will be the final chapter in their story which is sad because i love these two and scary because end chapters are always the ones I struggle with the most

But.

With the end of Off limits I get to start Ari’s story, Fake Out, which im SO excited for because its fake dating and I love fake dating so much and you guys will get to see the two protagonists meet in Off Limits soon and I can’t wait for that

Since I was 19 I’ve had struggles with mental health which I managed to just about cope with on my own, however since loosing my dog who was my best friend in December I really really struggled with my mental health and it was the push I needed to finally get some help.

My friend recommended a local NHS funded service and I’ve recently started therapy to help combat my emetophobia and anxiety (which annoyingly trigger each other. Thanks brain 🙃)

I have only attended two sessions so far but I have already notices a difference and it’s all down to me learning about safety behaviours.

I am lucky enough to get this course of therapy for free (thanks NHS!) but I am aware for many people that is not the case so I thought sharing what I’ve learnt may help some of you with similar problems, of course im not a professional so do a little research yourself too!

But basically when dealing with a fear you can react in two different ways: safety behaviour and healthy behaviour.

A safety behaviour is something that you do that keeps you safe but reinforces the fear

While healthy behaviour protect you while allowing you to feel safe in that environment.

So for example if you have a fear of dogs a safety behaviour would be to immediately leave a park if a dog turned up while a healthy behaviour is something that would allow you to remain in the park with the dogs.

Since learning this I have been able to identify which behaviours and coping strategies I use are actually healthy and work towards improving those that aren’t and its made me feel so much more free!

Co-worker: sure 👍 *sends back work to me without making the changes *