i need a socially anxious gf x nexz bf who handles it plss
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š»āāļø Haru
Haru notices before you even realize youāre getting overwhelmed. Heāll see you start fidgeting with your sleeves, your eyes darting around the room, or how your responses slowly turn into little nods instead of words. He never calls attention to it. Instead, heāll quietly walk over, slip his hand into yours, and ask, āWant some air?ā If you nod, thatās all he needs. The two of you disappear outside without another word. Heāll happily sit beside you in complete silence because he knows sometimes talking only makes it worse. Once youāre ready, heāll smile and ask, āBetter?ā If you shake your head, heāll tell everyone youāre stealing him for the rest of the day.
š§ Tomoya
Tomoya is the type to make every social situation feel less scary. Before introducing you to anyone, heāll quietly tell you who they are and one thing about them so you donāt feel like youāre walking into the unknown. During conversations heāll naturally include you without putting you on the spot. If he notices you getting quiet, heāll gently change the subject or answer for you until youāre comfortable again. At crowded events heāll always keep one hand on your back so you know exactly where he is, and if you whisper, āCan we go home?ā heāll already be reaching for the car keys before you finish your sentence.
šæļøHyui
Hyuiās solution is distraction. The second he notices your anxiety creeping in, he becomes ten times sillier than usual. Heāll whisper the most ridiculous observations in your ear, make goofy faces from across the room, or purposely tell terrible jokes just to catch a tiny smile. He knows laughter helps ground you. If someone keeps trying to talk to you when youāre visibly uncomfortable, heāll smoothly jump into the conversation and completely hijack it. By the end, everyone is laughing at his stories while youāre quietly recovering beside him.
šāā¬ Yu
Yu understands that sometimes words feel impossible. He never pressures you to speak if you donāt want to. Instead, heāll subtly position himself between you and a crowd so you feel less exposed. If someone asks you a question while youāre frozen, heāll answer first or redirect the conversation without making it obvious. He doesnāt see your quietness as something to fix. He thinks itās just another part of you, and he loves every part. Whenever you apologize for being ātoo much,ā he simply says, āYouāre not.ā
š¶ So Geon
So Geon is incredibly observant. He notices the tiny things no one else catches how tightly youāre gripping your bag, how youāre bouncing your knee under the table, or how your smile looks a little forced. Without saying anything, heāll lace his fingers with yours and rub small circles across the back of your hand. He always makes sure you have a quiet place to escape if you need it. If everyone else wants to stay longer but youāre overwhelmed, heāll happily leave with you and spend the rest of the evening watching movies instead.
š¦¦ Yuki
Yuki somehow turns into your personal spokesperson without anyone realizing. If you stumble over your words, heāll naturally continue the conversation for you before bringing the attention somewhere else. Heās also really good at making you laugh when youāre nervous. Heāll tease you just enough to get you smiling, but never enough to make you uncomfortable. The moment someone else starts pushing your boundaries, though, his playful attitude disappears. Heās polite, but firm. āSheās not comfortable with that,ā is usually enough to end the conversation.
š¦ Seita
Seita prepares for your anxiety before it even happens. He always keeps headphones, your favorite snack, water, and anything else that helps calm you down in his bag ājust in case.ā If youāre going somewhere new, heāll show you pictures of the place beforehand, tell you what to expect, and even point out where the quieter areas are. He never wants you walking into an unfamiliar situation unprepared. After particularly overwhelming days, heāll wrap you in the biggest hug and remind you how proud he is that you tried, no matter how long you stayed.
