eddie diaz has to reconstruct his perception of a family this season he has to do this because he hasn't been on his own without someone to directly take care of before and he has to deconstruct his relationship with himself and why he sabotages his own happiness and whether that indicates that deep down what he thinks makes him happy or complete isn't what he thought it was and he has to deconstruct his identity as a father and a widower and what he means to himself and why he lets himself be destroyed for other people and he is also a queer man btw