AIO for refusing to keep doing favors for my neighbor after this?
A few months back, I started accepting deliveries for my neighbor when they weren’t around. Honestly, it wasn’t a major hassle. Since I work from home, it felt like a small favor no big deal at all.
But lately? Ugh, they've stopped even asking. Delivery drivers just show up at my place with their packages, and some of those boxes hang around in my hallway for days. Super annoying.
Last week, one giant box turned my entryway into a maze. So, I texted my neighbor, asking if they could swing by that evening to pick it up. Their response? You’ll survive another day. Talk about a lack of gratitude. I was pretty irritated. So, when another delivery person came knocking, I politely said no. Then my neighbor showed up at my door, accusing me of being petty and insisting, good neighbors help each other.
Now it’s awkward. They’ve been icy as we pass by, and another neighbor even suggested I should’ve just let it slide to keep the peace.
Am I really overreacting for deciding to stop accepting their packages?
Reddit consensus: NOT OVERREACTING (NOR) (100% confidence)
Top comment: “NOR. Your neighbor is rude and entitled”
Notable comment: “NOR. Taking liberties and getting angry when they were the inconsiderate party is pushing you into bending over backwards to please them. Who cares if they're upset? Either they can get over it and have packages delivered to a hub location or keep giving you the cold shoulder. At least you didn't accept the package, write a big "return to sender" and take it somewhere. They can schedule their deliveries better for when they are home.
Maintain your boundaries. People like to walk all over people who help them a time or two and it gets daunting when they assume they will always get their way. You are not living for their convenience. They do not pay you a fee to take their things and store them. You owe them nothing, regardless of trying to keep the peace. Where is your peace in that equation? Nowhere.”
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Originally shared by SpinachStriking5018 on r/AmIOverreacting on August 3rd, 2026 at 12:46 AM UTC. Credit to u/Beach_Girl65 and u/afirelitescape for the quoted comments.



















