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we got bream, coley, mako, saithe, danio, trahira, devario, tetra, cisco, dace, lenok, taimen, koi...

just imagine meeting someone named trev but it's not short for trevor

Coexistinclus =🌈=

Carrd: Much more info of these ((HERE ))

The idea that all good-faith queer identities can coexist, even if they're different, complex, or hard to understand. Some identities have clear categories (Ulexens), while others bend or challenge traditional expectations (Daylilians)

This was made as a way for me to understand my own identity (Ulexen) and work through dysphoria, while also learning to respect Daylilian identities. It's not about dividing the community, it's about understanding and coexistence.

This was made to just help explain the nuances of queer experiences. Also before making any assumptions from this very simplified post please read more in the carrd :)

+FYI: both of these are inclusive of a-specs, neopronouns, xenogenders, pronoun nonconformity (examples: she/her men, he/him woman, etc..), nonbinary+ transmascs lesbians (not all transmascs are binary men), nonbinary+ transfem gays (not all transfems are binary women)

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Ulexen

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Queer identities that fit into some kind of clear category or boundary and feel affirmed by that structure :

- Labels are categorized in a more "typical" or structured way (being mono but not mspec and vice versa, binary and/or nonbinary trans men/women who want to be seen similarly to cis men/women, etc.) There may still nuances to some experiences/identities however these people usually like having boundaries/ clarity in their label and feel dysphoric or uncomfortable when grouped into more contradictory or blended identity spaces -

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Daylilian

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Queer identities that seem "contradictory", but are authentic and honest for the person using them :

- Identities that seem contradictory or outside the "usual" expectations of identities/labels (like mspec lesbians, mspec gays, gaybians, straightbians, etc.), or trans/GNC people who feel compatible with labels usually tied to another group (like trans or any genderqueer men who feel aligned with lesbians, trans or any genderqueer women who feel aligned with gay men) along with many other nuanced experiences. It's about living your real experience even when it doesn't fit neat boxes. -

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Dualilian

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Being both Ulexen and Daylilian, fluid between them, or existing somewhere in between.

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Dialilian (Left) /※*

Mostly Daylilian, with some Ulexen traits or alignment.

Dulexen (Right) *∂\

so i've recently started identifying as futch, but i haven't been able to find a flag that has resonated with me for the term; so i decided to make one!!!

this futch flag is based off of the butch and femme flags by twitter user flaggasm. i wanted the flag to represent the intersections between butch & femme by combining the color orange (which is typically associated with butches) & the colors pink/purple (which are typically associated with femmes) without it coming off too much like the lesbian flag (which has the same inspirations). additionally, i wanted the stripe meanings to emphasize inclusion.

my personal definition of futch, for those curious: a gender expression typically used by sapphics that is characterized by a mix of feminine (femme) and masculine (butch) traits; historically used to describe those who preferred taking on both the traditionally feminine (femme) and traditionally masculine (butch) roles in queer relationships.

this flag is all-inclusive, and anyone can use it as long as they identify with it!

strawberry nonbinary + strawberry desserts

flag credit: @ramune-moved