"Stuff like this is made to brainwash young girls into thinking that they can 'fix' dangerous men. Such girls usually end up in abusive relationships and their parents are right to worry."

It is rather strange to come across such a gross generalization, operating on an assumption that girls are blank slates whom anyone can manipulate and who can't distinguish between real and make believe on top of it.

In my entire "career"(if you can call it that) of engaging with fiction , the girls and women that I have run into in fandoms happened to be some of the most intelligent, talented, cool, witty and insightful people I have ever met. I've devoured the fics they have written. I have delighted in the arts and edits they've made. Their perspectives and interpretations about the characters and their relationships are genuinely fascinating to read about regardless of whether I agree with it or not. They are the ones who are most often at the receiving end of the antis' ire for no valid reason but they just keep deriving joy and inspiration from their favourite characters and ships and keep sharing it with others through stories, art and thoughts. They are not just smart but incredibly resilient, sensitive and aware not just about the media they consume but about the world around them and its issues.

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LOFI NASHURI short animation made by me ( a comm for @midnight-oily 💗💗 )

“It Could Have Been Different - Part 2″

This is how Wakanda Forever ended, right? 

This drawing really got away from me, but it’s finally DONE.  I knew that I didn’t have it in me to draw Namor in all of his Mesoamerican finery, so I cheated and got creative with Photoshop magic.  I also thought that Shuri’s outfit should be minimalist to provide a fun contrast, but of course, she’s wearing the jade jewelry that Namor had given her in Talokan.

And in a nod to Wakandan modesty, Namor actually put on some clothes a tunic.  It is his wedding day, after all.

Marvel Really Said ‘No Romance’… and Then Wrote All This Tension Anyway

Today’s post is technically a Ship Scream… but not really about actual ships.

It’s about those “non-couples” — the ones that were never meant to be romantic, never written that way, and yet somehow… the potential is there.

Lately I’ve been doing a Marvel rewatch, and rewatching is honestly dangerous, because it makes you notice things you completely miss the first time — when you’re just caught up in the excitement of what’s happening.

And what I realized is that the MCU, whether intentionally or not (and this is just my perspective), has created very strong emotional tensions between certain characters that could have evolved into something more.

Not necessarily should have, but… they could have.

And I found myself going full Ship Scream over three in particular.

Steve Rogers & Natasha Romanoff

Let’s start with the one that probably surprised me the most: Steve Rogers and Natasha Romanoff.

In Captain America: Civil War, I absolutely loved the dynamic they built.

You see traces of it again later — especially in Avengers: Endgame, in that quieter scene where they talk while Steve is leading those support groups, following the kind of work Sam used to do with veterans. That detail alone creates this subtle emotional thread that always connects Steve back to Sam Wilson.

Now — I’m saying this as someone who loves Steve and Peggy. They’re timeless to me.

But if the story had never found a way to bring him back to Peggy… I genuinely think Natasha would have made more sense than Sharon (who, in the MCU, was never really developed in the same way she is in the comics).

Because with Natasha, Steve brings out something rare.

She shows a level of vulnerability and humanity with him that she doesn’t easily show with others.

Yes, she has a deep bond with Clint — but with Steve, there’s something different.

They’re opposites: – he’s light, she’s shadow – he’s ideal, she’s survival

And that contrast? That’s exactly what makes it interesting.

You wouldn’t expect someone like Steve to connect with someone as “broken” as Natasha — and you wouldn’t expect Natasha to find stability in someone as morally grounded as Steve.

And yet… that’s exactly why it could have worked.

Namor & Shuri

This one? I know. It makes no sense.

And yet: Shuri and Namor.

Watching Black Panther: Wakanda Forever again, I realized how strong their chemistry actually is.

I don’t even know if it’s intentional or just something that comes from the actors — but it’s there.

Their first interactions feel almost… regal.

He treats her like a princess. She meets him on that same level.

There’s a mutual recognition there.

And then there’s that moment — when he gives her the bracelet.

Yes, it’s part of a larger strategic plan. He wants Wakanda as an ally.

But at the same time… that bracelet belonged to his mother.

That’s not just a political gesture.

It’s one of the only objects that connects him to his origins, to his family — and we know how much that matters to him, considering everything he’s done in her name.

So giving it to Shuri? That’s not nothing.

And the fact that she keeps wearing it — until someone points it out — also says something.

There’s something there that goes beyond alliance or manipulation.

And honestly? The tension between them — even the conflict — makes it even more interesting.

Enemies to lovers is always a possibility.

Will it ever happen? Probably not.

But it’s fun to see it.

Robert "Bob" Reynolds & Yelena Belova

And then the one that really got me during this rewatch:

Yelena and Bob.

This one is completely improbable.

And yet… I love it.

Because what you have here is a dynamic built on contrast, but in a different way than Steve and Natasha.

Yelena is strong, trained, dangerous — shaped by everything she’s been through.

Bob, on the other hand, when he’s not Sentry, is fragile.

Mentally unstable. Struggling. Broken in a completely different way.

And somehow, she becomes the one who can reach him.

She’s the one who: – steps in first – tries to stabilize him – actually gets him to listen

And I think that works because Yelena herself has walked through her own darkness.

She understands what it means to live with internal chaos.

And because of that, she can understand him.

At the same time, being around him softens her.

She drops that cold exterior, just a little.

And he, in turn, finds strength next to someone who is so grounded, so decisive.

It’s not the same dynamic as Steve/Natasha — but it carries that same emotional weight.

The Beauty of “Non-Couples”

None of these are canon ships.

They’re not written as romantic. There are no explicit hints that they ever will be.

And that’s fine.

I’m not someone who forces things that aren’t there or needs them to become canon.

What I appreciate is something else:

the way these relationships are built.

Because regardless of labels — romantic, platonic, enemies, allies — these interactions are written with so much depth that they create something real.

Something that makes you feel.