#mythandry

So I just saw some site agreeing that Oceans is one of the “gayest” movies this year, and I am ALL on this BUT they then went and recast it for the sequel - which isn’t fucking needed - and it included replacing three of the women with men, and Mindy with the fucking whitest gay dude they could apparently find. 

If you take nothing away from this movie, get this:

No. Hims.

You know, where the groom is ruining his life, and giving up everything and poor him being dragged to the altar? That kind of shit?

Here’s what I don’t get. Where the fuck is he getting off complaining about that at all? Shouldn’t the woman be the one all wait, wtf? Where am I coming from?

Even now, in this supposedly enlightened age, women still take on the majority of the household work. They’re expected to work, have kids, be the primary caregiver for the kids while the dad “babysits” sometimes. Equality in sharing chores is seen as like 80/20. Men have man caves and men’s nights and women are supposed to be delighted with a clean house and making a full home cooked meal after working 40 hours. It’s still assumed a woman will be sexually available whenever her husband wants, and if she’s not she’s cold and a prude who is a shrew holding out to get him to do her work around the house.

Why are men complaining and pretending like marriage is ruining their lives and trapping them when they’re gaining everything back that they expected/assumed their moms would do for years.

Woman are the one that society is shackling with the expectation of being parent, maid, housekeeper, cook, chauffeur, sexual toy, hostess... the list goes on and on, and yet men are the ones that play these games when they get married with poor children not old enough to read carrying signs that say “last chance to run, here she comes”, and whining about their freedom being taken and how they’re now shackled to a woman who society will damn for not being all of the above plus some while he hides in his man cave. 

WTF is just wrong with people?

I  was recently told by some woowoo new age wannabe hippy dude that it didn’t matter if I’m sapphic that if my partner or soul mate wasn’t a man, or very masculine, my magic would not work and that I would be belittling myself as a woman and the energy of my womb.

One, fuck you. Two, fucking die. Three, fuck off.

Unacceptable: Men can’t be witches.

Acceptable: Men can be witches but I do not wish to practice with them/with male energy/this is not part of my practice.

Unacceptable: Men forcing themselves into a woman’s practice, mansplaining to her why this is wrong, and how she HAS to have male energy in her work and can’t do witchcraft without a man, figuratively or literally.

This has happened to me twice in the last few weeks.

But seriously. If I make a post and end it with: if you come in here to be a dick, I will block you. That means don’t be a dick. So of your answer to this is: here’s my side of things, BUT IF YOU’RE JUST GOING TO BLOCK ME FOR DISAGREEING WITH YOU, WHATEVER BLOCK ME. 

Guess what dick? I blocked you. Not for disagreeing with me - even if I will not listen to that brilliant argument (It’s not mental illness, it’s taking meds for mental illness. Again, which more women do and AREN’T doing these things). It wasn’t that the point of the post was: call a terrorist a terrorist no matter their color, and you’re deflecting that.

It is because I will not play this game of belittling and baiting women into discourse so you can demean them and their point. So yeah, I blocked them. So here’s the thing.

IT’S YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA. BLOCK WHO YOU WANT. 

Don’t let people guilt you into not blocking them. Don’t let people harass you into thinking you are weak if you block people. It’s your space, and you can block whoever you want. You can block them because they post things they trigger you. You can block them because you hate a show they’re obsessed with. You can block them because they’re being a dick and you don’t want to put up with that.