It is such a red flag for me when people get so prickly or snobbish over the difference between bi and pan and even other mspec labels. Like 9/10 those types of people are deeply unpleasant and/or miserable. They also seem to have major control issues and have the vibes of wanting to be part of a queer panopticon which. Holy shit. Just let people do what they want.
Actually in typing this, I just realized these types of people have the EXACT same vibes as transmeds. Holy shit.
















