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“Even when you announce it, certain people will not feel safe when you decide to grow and therefore change the relationship agreements. They will expect you to stay the old version of yourself, as long as they need you to be, for their own reasons. One thing I always trust at this stage of my ascension is when relationships and people vibrate out of my life. . Probably THE biggest karmic lesson of this lifetime for me is around ending soul contracts of enmeshment that come from misunderstanding empathic gifts. Naturally this means I have soul family from many lifetimes who have agreed to come here to remind me that this lifetime I am choosing myself. . Choosing myself means I am going to practice loving boundaries that honor both them and myself. That I will remain generous and kind and it will be done without enmeshment. I will remain committed to this even when they don’t agree, don’t understand or are not willing to grow along side me. . The issue for me in relationships has not been about fear of rejection of getting hurt. My issue has always been about failing to maintain my boundaries because I love someone and want to take care of them. But that pattern is coming to completion. . The main thing I am here to teach is that thinking we need to pull other peoples energy into our energy field in order to read them, heal them or support them, is old paradigm. What I call being a Retired Empath. . It’s not even that it’s not our job to process other people’s feelings and emotions, it’s that we actually can’t process other people’s stuff. It’s not possible to process what doesn’t belong to us. And other people’s energy in our field creates countless problems. This is why other people’s energy must be cleared and boundaries upheld. . Keep your aura clean and clear. Especially when you are here for a specific life purpose. There is nothing elitist about choosing a life path where you don’t allow certain energies into your energetic space. Just learn to do so without judgement. For people who are attached to an old version of you, who want to relate to you through enmeshing, sometimes the best thing you can do for them is to outgrow them.”