#moon-venus

none of this is 100%, only take what resonates.

moon-venus :

- positively aspected - women can love you, they admire you, support you, wish you well, want to befriend you, fond over your looks, are very graceful towards you, put you on to their male friends, supportive of your relationships, could also wish they could have a relationship like yours

- negatively aspected - women can be nice to you but secretly not like/care for you, they're a "girl's girl" until it's you, not very supportive of you, may see you as weird or not like the rest, can act mean-girl-ish towards you, secretly want or desire your feminine nature, could leave you out of things, may be fake towards you

moon-mars :

- positively aspected - women can respect your drive and ambitions, they admire your anger, are always rooting for you, intensely supportive of you, may see you as attractive, could want or admire your sexual nature, will try not to anger you in order to get on your good side

- negatively aspected - women can be very aggressive towards you, are competive with you, want the things you have, see your sexual nature as "too much" or "too provocative", may want you to act with more aggression and masculinity, won't take your side in altercations, could view you as mean or selfish

moon-pluto :

- positively aspected - women can desire you, be inspired by you, are very accepting of your dark side, could adore you until they don't, can be obsessed with you, can be possessive with you, admire your presence, aren't afraid to spill their secrets with you, trust you more than they should

- negatively aspected - women can be jealous of you, see you as inappropriate, are suspicious of you, see you as a threat, hate how much you influence people, could try to ruin your image, may try to pry your secrets out of you, may get uncomfortable around you, will see you as better than them in some aspect

moon-saturn :

- positively aspected - women might love to guide/teach you, won't mind investing in you, see you as one of their children, may have the tendency to take care of you in some way, might be a little too critical of your actions, respect your determination

- negatively aspected - women can be very judgemental towards you, see you as a kid, look down upon you, may not care about your emotions as much, will want you to suck it up and take shit, may call you "too sensitive", will push heavy tasks onto you because you can "handle it", might use you in some way, see you as someone who as it together and will use that for their own good

moon-sun :

- postively aspected - women love your personality, they look up to you, are always hyping you up, will support your goals, will make sure you're feeling confident, will make sure you're looking good, are very kind and caring towards you, will always remember you, will speak highly of you, see you as a a great leader

✨just for fun im just talking random ass shit based on PERSONALL observations..✨

PART TWELVE. 📀

virgo risings and people getting intimidated by the way they speak (scorpio 3rd house). But then when you get know and befriend them theyre so sweet (pisces 7h, cancer 11h). My virgo rising bestie & when i first met her in college she was speaking in class and i was like woah shes smart asf and intense 😭

or sag risings and them speaking to people in a direct yet still obscure manner! or sometimes even cold in a sense.. like girl what do u really mean fr 🤨 (aqua 3h). But then you get closer with them and they love to chat with you (gemini 7h) and make anytime u hang out a pleasant and nice time (libra 11h). my sag rising friend throws the best parties (going all out with the decor, presentation of food, having a theme & ofc taking nice pics after… real libra 11h shit).

taurus risings and them communicating in a very soft, comforting manner (cancer 3h) and as you get closer you notice their intensity in their relationships with people (scorpio 7h) and their giving, helpful nature in their friendships (pisces 11h).

another thing about taurus risings, you can bet they are getting FREAKYYY with their partner with that scorpio 7h 😭they are very private with their relationships and rarely reveal personal details about it unless they trust you. my taurus rising cousin and she never shares anything about her bf (whats mine is mine you dont need to worry about it) energy. and she also has mentioned she doesnt need to give ppl a reason to try to found out for themselves what a great time shes having lmfaooo

also my taurus rising coworkers and one time we all went out for drinks and one of our coworkers was complaining about how women always have a shit time when having seggs with men and my taurus rising coworker was like “wellppp cant relate.”.. and i oop 🙈

the 2nd house rules the vocal chords and as an aries 2h sometimes when im excited or even mad i sound like a 12 year old 😭 like naruto when hes giving one of his NEVER GIVE UP NEVER BACK DOWNNN speech. I also feel like if you have scorpio or aries 2h people always think you're mad and want you to "calm down" when you talk. like no im not mad have you ever heard of being fucking passionate? hmmm?

In general, aries placements could also find they get a lot of patronizing comments or aries women could even find that men often try to "mainsplain" them. just bc aries are being assertive doesnt mean theyre being reckless or not seeing the big picture.. its all a balance. Aries DOES have this youthful /bold energy, but that doesnt mean they cant be wise people who prefer to learn by doing, even if others mistake their approach for inexperience..

we know plutonians can be seen as having this “abrasive” energy to other people. it can throw them off or make them be like “oh i dont like them.” but pluto doms recognize other plutonian people its that silent understand lmaooo its giving "real recognize real😎 " overall tho pluto dom ppl try to give others the benefit of the doubt (not necessarily bc they like them but just bc they wanna feel the energy on their own). like if people are talking shit about someone pluto doms might sit back and stay silent about it. they do their digging on their own. theyre not gonna let the crowd influence how they feel about someone. plutonians will be DOING THEIR DIGGING FIRST no matter what.

I remember a time when my cousin, who’s a Scorpio rising, asked me if I liked one of her friends (not in a romantic way). I said, 'Yeah, why?' and she replied, 'Oh, just asking because she said she feels like you don’t like her, but I knew she was overthinking it.'" We moved on from the conversation, but later, I realized that was such a typical Scorpio rising move. Instead of just telling me, 'Hey, my friend feels like you don’t like her,' she asked me that question first to confirm or deny it. I felt like she did that on purpose to make it harder for me to lie, even though I wouldn’t have lied in the first place. It annoyed me because, like, why would I lie about something like that??? But then I understood it’s just her nature. Scorpio risings ask questions in a detective ass way because they want to dig for the truth and feel out people’s responses.

plutonians and scorpios do that shit all the time, tilting their heads like little cats, squinting, being all like "oh..hmm, why do you think that?" like no im about to do this shit with u rn sherlock fuckin JONES u know WHYYY

in my moon aspects post ppl asked me if it still applied with “harminous aspects” and yes. it still does. just bc u think its easier doesnt negate the energy. for ex i have moon trine neptune and my mom (moon) has always been in her own world (neptune). and other family members find her energy “endearing” or ask me to “be kinder to her” but its also hard when your mom often times cares more about the world of what ifs in her head more than the real world with her daughter ... also my moms way of coping (moon) at times would literally be by saying in front of the family as soon she got home that she hates her life and wish she could “grow wings and be somewhere far away from everyone ” like delulu was always the solution for her 😭….

but also i wonder if people with moon-neptune placements feel confused (neptune) about motherhood (moon) in general. i use to say i didn't want kids but as ive gotten older i do like the idea of it. it just feels very....… [static noises]

nui.views on instagram reminds me of the aries-libra axis so much. Most of her videos have titles like “how to be soft and direct” or “how to balance sharp and soft expressions.” usually titles along those lines. We know theres always time to read the room (libra) but also knowing when its time to stand up or speak up! (aries) and nui.views basically says it’s possible to do both.

12h moons & their moms being their biggest enemyyy is crazy!! 🤨 the passive aggressive behavior, entitlement, hating from the sidelines. AND the expectation of the 12h moon child to “repay” or be “grateful” mother for all they did. my ex had a 12h scorpio moon and brooo anytime they got a good thing, mom would make it all about her (for ex they bought a new car, mom was LIVIDDDDD). the moon can show how mom takes advantage. for ex: scorpio moon in the 12h and mom (moon) is possessive about the resources (scorpio) you have or over you in general. taurus moon and mom (moon) is possessive about your money (taurus) or maybe even holds over your head that “she feeds you.” i have a coworker with a 12h taurus moon and her mom constantly borrows money from her or literally steals it and never pays it back. capricorn moon and mom may feel like your accomplishments belong to her or “you wouldn’t be successful without all i did” energy.

^ their can be a lot of enmeshment with the mom with this placement (especially if their is a moon-pluto aspect) but its something the 12h moon person has to decide to sever or break from on their own and on their own time. this placement has to deal with the “mother always knows best😊😊😊😊” energy

12th house Moon women and other women (Moon) being their hidden enemies (12th house) is so real! I remember at my old job, one of my coworkers had a 12th house Aquarius Moon, and all the women would talk so much shit about her behind her back. (To be fair, she wasn’t doing her job well, but their comments were just unnecessarily nasty.) I used to feel bad for her in meetings because everyone would act normal to her face. I wasn’t at that job long… With this placement, it's common for other women (whether friends, family, or acquaintances) to secretly harbor resentment, jealousy, or animosity that isn’t obvious on the surface. Plus, with 12th house placements, if the person is genuinely doing something wrong or needs feedback, instead of being honest, people often use that as an excuse to bring up unrelated complaints or things they don’t like, turning it into something bigger than it is!! Like girl how did you go from talking about her customer service skills to talking about her haircut be fr!

how do you guys feel about people who plan their pregnancies to get a sign/ birth chart they are compatible with for their child? not gonna lie I use to think that shit was crazy but then I think about the 12h synastry and squares I have with my mom and im like... this shii couldve been way cuter...

gemini placements are the people that wake up in the middle of the night to google a random fact. its a itch they gotta scratch 😭 me with my chart ruler gemini jupiter in the 3h. trying to do type a paper for a class in one sitting? well no i got sidetracked reading about how to defend yourself against bear attacks which led me to bear survival stories on reddit which led me to reading about polar bears which led me to finding an article about the farmer that got attacked and eaten by his own hog named teddy and then… boom . its 3am.

Its so hard though like we know the "jack of all trades" label that comes with mercurial energy but damn what if I just wanna be a jack of one trade and be really good at that one thing? I bounce around from thing to thing because im always getting these diff ideas but im really working on finishing something once I start it. its just hard.... sometimes I b having a lot to yap about, ya know? (ive had many diff hobbies, writing fan-fiction, painting, making candles, crocheting, LMAOOO its just chaos sometimes)

sometimes aspects can be very literal. im spilling some family tea sorry tia but for ex my aunt has venus conjuct pluto in the 10th house and her relationships (venus) are known for (10h) being taboo or just frowned upon (10h). She dated her besties ex-husband and it caused A LOT OF drama and then he fucking died bro...like?? Being known for (10h) her lovers (venus) dying (pluto)?????? im not trying to be a judgmental asshole but also its so disappointing though when people use aspects like this for evil? fucking ur besties man as soon as they get divorced? with that venus-pluto in the 10h she could've found herself a successful ass business man!

my bestie is a teacher and she was telling me about how the kids were sharing about what they wanna be when they grow up and when it got to this one girls turn she said she wanted to be a basketball player or some shit like that (the point is it was a very 5th grade response similar to her peers) but then like the kids started clapping when she said hers??? LMAOOOO and to me that is the most sun-venus SHIT EVER. and then she told me all the the 5th grade tea, how some of the boys have a crush on her haha. shes admired and well liked (venus) just for being who she is (sun)!

moon-venus is different. my experience with venus-moon aspect has consisted of women always feeling comfortable enough to confide me, me feeling more comfy with women around, children loving me, children in my family venting to me (im that one cousin the babies reach out to first to get picked up ejeje). the moon is about the inner self, privacy, and our home life. A moon-venus person might be very well-liked, but often in a more low-key, intimate way. They're the type of person you confide in or feel safe with, rather than someone who shines in the spotlight or dominates a social scene the way a sun-venus person would. both aspects make a person likable, but in different way. sun-venus is more about being confident and noticeable, while moon-venus is more about being caring and emotionally connected with others.

🌑 The Moon: the First Spell

She was the first face you saw.

Before language. Before time.

Just milk. breath. heartbeat.

Your Moon is the imprint of that—

the body memory of how you were held, or not.

When the Moon in your chart is afflicted—by Saturn, Pluto, or even a hard Sun—it can mean the mother’s love came with conditions.

Maybe she loved you, but only if you performed.

Only if you were quiet.

Only if you made her proud, made her look good, made her feel like she wasn’t failing.

You became her mirror. Not a child, but a performance.

De-centering her means breaking that spell.

It means realizing: you are not her second chance.

You are your own origin story.

🪐 Saturn to the Moon: Cold Milk, Heavy Eyes

This is the mother who was tired.

Who made you feel like your needs were too much.

Who taught you that your emotions were either dramatic or dangerous.

With Saturn-Moon, the mother can be physically or emotionally absent.

You raise yourself.

You become your own protector, but you lose softness.

Affection feels foreign, indulgent, or unsafe.

But here’s the truth:

That hard shell you built around your heart?

It was necessary.

But it’s not home.

You don’t live there anymore.

🌋 Moon-Pluto: The Devouring Mother

She loved you intensely. Or not at all

Too much. Too little

Her love had teeth—clenched, possessive, unforgiving.

You were her obsession, her vessel, her shadow.

She watched you like prey.

Her moods swallowed the room whole.

You either became invisible—or explosive.

You may find that your emotions scare you.

Or that you attract lovers who try to control you—because it feels familiar.

But here’s the rebirth:

Your sensitivity is volcanic. Sacred. Untouchable.

De-centering her means not needing to be loyal to her pain anymore.

You don’t owe anyone your smallness.

You don’t have to be her emotional graveyard.

☀️ Moon-Sun Hard Aspect: The Internal War

This is the split. The fracture.

Your identity (Sun) and your needs (Moon) at war.

Maybe your mother didn’t see who you were.

Or she tried to make you who she wanted you to be.

Every decision feels like betrayal.

If you shine, she dims.

If you rest, you’re lazy.

Love was earned. Your worth was measured.

This creates a haunting:

You live between guilt and glory.

Craving praise, fearing judgment.

But de-centering her means letting both parts of you breathe.

You can be your own sun and your own moon.

Warm and soft. Proud and gentle.

You don’t have to choose.

You were always meant to hold both.

🔥 Moon-Mars: The Hot House

This was not a peaceful home.

This was a battlefield.

Yelling. Explosions. Maybe even physical violence.

Or just the constant sense of walking on glass.

Your mother’s emotions raged.

So yours went underground—or flared like napalm.

Moon-Mars makes you fight for love.

Because love came with friction.

You either defend, flee, or destroy.

But real love?

Doesn’t need armor.

De-centering her means unlearning the war.

Anger isn’t your only language.

You can still be fierce—without burning your own house down.

💔 Moon-Venus Hard Aspect: The Pretty Lie

This is a mother who taught you:

be lovely. be likable. be soft.

Even if you’re breaking.

She taught you to perform emotion, not express it.

To make it pretty, consumable.

She praised your charm, but not your truth.

You may smile when you want to scream.

Flirt when you want to cry.

Offer love when you need it most.

But real love isn’t about being palatable.

De-centering her means letting yourself be messy, ugly, real.

Let yourself rage in pink. Cry in lace.

Let love hold your contradictions.

You don’t have to be perfect to be adored.

⚡️ Moon-Uranus: The Emotional Earthquake

Unpredictable.

Detached. Chaotic. Absent.

Maybe she loved you, but from a distance.

Or only when it suited her.

Maybe she vanished—physically or emotionally.

Moon-Uranus gives the child who never knew what mood she’d wake up to.

So you learned to detach too.

You keep people at arm’s length. You bolt.

Intimacy feels like a threat to your freedom.

But you’re not a child anymore.

You can choose your own rhythm.

You can have freedom without flight.

Love without surveillance.

De-centering her means you are no longer waiting for someone to stay.

Moon-Venus

✧ I feel like moon-venus depending on the aspect can fluctuate between the two.

✧ However i feel with the more harsher aspects (square,opposition) they can be more detached and almost have a 'idgaf' attitude, but deep down they just don’t know how to express their affection and get confused when people become attracted to them. This or they just genuinely get icked out receiving and or showing affection 😭

✧ Meanwhile with the more positive aspects (Trines, sextiles, Conjunctions) individuals may lean towards the more clingy side and this is definitely shown in their emotions and expressions. It’s kinda like if venusian traits were expressed through their moon sign. Because Venus adds that loving soft and caring energy it’s definitely easy to see that through their personality. However if this placement is unevolved they could become extremely clingy and overbearing.

✧ In the end it’s the individuals self-esteem and past experiences that lead to their idea of love and whether they deserve it or not. But depending on the other aspects made to their venus, (along with the moon aspect) yes I do believe this can lead to attachment issues. Whether they detach themselves from you or if they yearn for your attention, some of it could be deeply rooted in a fear of losing someone’s interest/love, or being scared of being hurt first in the relationship.

The 4th house tells us about our environments, family life, domestic life, our subconscious desires, and our ability to manifest in some cases!

Uranus-Moon aspects or Aquarius Moon or Uranus in the 4th house placements usually have an erratic home life where they never feel settled. The mother might possess jittery energy which makes sitting in the home almost unbearable. If you live alone, this could manifest as feeling restless when at home and having the need to get out of the house or move frequently.

Moon in the 3rd house natives also feel the need to move a lot.

Though this is unrelated to family life, I see that Saturn in the 4th house does not always indicate a harsh family life, sometimes it delegates our sense of responsibility from the household and family to "care work" or working in fields such as nursing, medicine, caring for the young or the elderly, etc. This is because Saturn, a lot of the time, tells us about our careers.

Libra Moons usually despise environments that aren't harmonious or tidy. They need their home to be aesthetically pleasing and ordered.

Having the ruler of the 4th house in the 7th house makes you fantasize about building a home with your future partner.

Saturn in the 4th house with an aspect to Mercury indicates having very controlling parents and siblings. It also means being the scapegoat in the family.

Additionally, Saturn in the 4th house can indicate generational wealth and a hefty inheritance.

Neptune in the 4th house can indicate issues with water in the house. Leaks, floods, issues with pipes, rust in your water, etc. It can also mean losing the home or being susceptible to theft or break-ins. Positively, it might just mean that you have a water fountain or a body of water near the home.

Mars in the 4th house puts the person at risk of fires in the home especially when cooking if Taurus is involved. A common astrological remedy for this is to have a fireplace in the house to manifest this energy in a safe way.

Sun in the 4th house could indicate that your father's wealth comes from property management and real estate. Natives with this placement also vividly resemble one of their parents -usually the mother.

Moon-Mercury placements or mercury in the 4th house indicate having a lot of books and stationery at home.

From my experience, some people with Pluto in the 4th house / Pluto-Moon placements grew up in a cult or with one of their parents being part of a cult or a religious zealot. Pluto in the 4th can also mean experiencing a deep sense of grief from losing an old family member that was close to you in your upbringing.

Venus in the 4th house indicates having a beautiful home, a mother that is either a Taurus or Libra or owns her own business in the food, agricultural, or beauty industries, to name a few. Other industries include property management, interior design, interior architecture, florist, wedding planning, event management, a ceramics business, and selling home appliances, kitchenware, and tableware.

Uranus in the 3rd house feels like you were brought up as an "other" or stranger within your immediate environment. Uranus in the 4th is a stranger in their own home.

Hi guys, I come back!! Wishing everyone a very happy Sagittarius season

I have aspect: Venus Capricorn square Mars Libra and I feel that I am easily attracted to people with the sun Libra, with Capricorn people in the sun and moon I meet have a very different feeling, have aspect. a respect, curiosity, interest, trust in being with them, a greater sense of security than those with the Libra sun.

+ It's like being a person who goes on a long with you, and one person can only be a friend. Perhaps that also explains part of the nature of Venus and Mars in love, one side is real love, the other is more related to sex?( No hate with who have sun Libra and I don't get relationship with them just by my sexual attractive by them)

The position of Libra undeveloped … omg: they have a shallow, somewhat superficial view, judge their appearance and bully others with body shaming (especially rising Libra), manipulate others with their their charm, extremely promiscuous and flirtatious despite being in a relationship

Men with strong Scorpio/8th can be very interested in bodybuilding, strength training, strength to protect their future lover, appreciate masculine beauty 💪

Moon in Capricorn radiates energy that calms everyone and animals around 🐶🐦

Pisces in big 3 are people who tell stories that they have read, experienced very vividly, their eyes and brains narrate and create a small movie, feeling like watching a movie.

Mercury 12th house has a voice that makes others feel like sleeping 😴😌

Venus in Aquarius/aspect Uranus: not in a hurry to find a lover, enjoying life, passion, doing things that make them feel comfortable is also enjoying their joy. It's really hard to force them in what kind of relationship, unless they want to

Pluto aspect North Node: the events that happen to them that can make the eyewitness mark about it, for example, what kind of people their surroundings are like and the external and internal reactions. in theirs. It can be patience, endurance, inhibition

Neptune in Sagittarius: love the beauty of nature, they love freedom and like to travel to places with natural nature

Both Sun, Moon aspect Mercury: make them easily restless, need stimulation with different information and events, very curious, easily bored when there is nothing new

Positions that make it difficult for a person to commit to a long-term relationship when (not necessarily an affair):

°Venus square/opposite aspect Mars: tension between love and sex

°Moon square/opposite aspect Mars: tension between one's own emotions and sexual desire

°Moon square/opposite aspect Venus: stress with emotions, necessity with expressions of love

°Moon square/ opposite Saturn: find it difficult to feel secure, comfortable in growing, maintaining long-term relationships

°Venus aspect Jupiter: with trine/ sextle/ conj: they know that they have a lot of choices, square.opppsite: often search, want to connect with many external relationships

°Libra undeveloped

Pluto heavy energy in chart: transform yourself often, quickly, maybe through what they've been through, through other people's words (maybe very sad stories, causing them pain) but through grief pain, they are far beyond becoming a different person, will not go through that pain again, learn from experience and train themselves to be stronger and wiser

Who have Sun/Moon square/opposite Pluto aspect: Their father/mother is not answer question or not give much infomation to them about their actions, intentions, past. For example: their parents don't tell them too much about the past, the things they do, this makes their children always feel that their parents are mysterious and difficult to understand.

When there aren’t hard moon-venus hard aspects, the things you want and need are similar enough that you can be satisfied with someone who gives you spontaneity, fun, gives you space and a carefree feeling (if you have fire or air moon/venus). You will also largely know what you want and need, those two desires matches up and when you get what you want and need. You’re able to stop and stay with that partner.

Fire/air placements aren’t incapable of a long term connection. They simply need to find something to suit their needs and wants. To have excitement, a healthy mental connection and someone to keep them on their toes vs earth/water placements wanting someone to keep them grounded, deeply emotionally bonded and secure

The same goes for feminine (earth and water) signs. If there are no hard aspects between moon-venus. What you want and need matches up and you could desire stability or deep emotional connection all the way through and you can be completely satisfied.

With a square or opposition between moon and venus, what you want and what you need are so different. Especially in the case of the square that the things you need, what gives you comfort and security is in direct conflict of what you want, what you like and even what gets you excited. This could lead to longing for something in a romantic relationship that your partner cannot truly fulfil because the person that you want and need are so different and it would be incredibly rare for someone to have those opposing traits and still be sane. This as expected can also lead to cheating, going through many partners or always searching for ‘the one’ with no one truly fulfilling their wants and needs.

This clash of want and need can also occur when you have moon and venus and one placement is masculine (air/fire) while the other is feminine (earth/water).

Hi, i’m just wondering would this be in a natal position or in synastry? Let me know and i’ll be happy to respond :) 

Here it is :) 

I believe this person (maybe more in childhood or in adolescent years) were very easy-going and truly valued peace. Loves love for the sake of it and sometimes, can overlook negative characteristics of a person. Insecurity and self-esteem issues may arise with these placements.