my dear engenes, please prioritise your health! fandom is supposed to be fun and if you feel awful constantly having to dwell on everybody's takes, there is no shame in pausing, stopping or leaving completely (despite what others say)! you can always come back when you feel ready, or never if you feel like it and it will never mean you suddenly hate the boys or have become an anti. the world keeps turning, and there is no reason to keep feeling miserable if you do π«πππ








