#mmhmmm

Honestly so down bad for Lessi, she could do whatever she wants to me. Think about her way too often…want those hands all over me.

Unfortunately I do think most of the bad acting allegations Finn gets are from Bylers and Milevens who are upset about certain scenes. If i had a dime for every time I'd heard someone say "Finn can only act with Millie/Noah" I could buy a car. Because he's in BOTH ships, or all four if you throw in fillie and foah, he gets most of the hate. If it's a Byler scene then Milevens make fun of him, and vice versa. He's a great actor and he's very consistent (that much is obvious with his track record) but the ships have people reading into his expressions and emotions way more than normal and anytime anyone sees something they dislike or that could lead to their ship being negatively effected, they just chalk it up to "finn sucks" and keep it pushing. I've been in Finn's fandom since 2016 but left the ST fandom around 2023 because of this, his character and he himself have been boiled down to "love interest of my favorite character/actor who better not screw up or make it seem like he's anything other than that" and it's been... weird to say the least. I got back into it for s5 bc it seemed like everyone had grown up a bit but i guessssssss... not lmao. It's just hard to watch, anytime he does anything that doesn't align with the beliefs of Milevens/Fillies/Bylers/Foahs then whatever group he upset spends about month just whacking him nonstop as some kind of "punishment", his acting, music, body, looks, interests. It's really uncomfortable, I've seen people say they tag him in nsfw content of whatever ship he criticized because they know it makes him uncomfortable and I just... idk it feels odd. I've never seen any of his other fandoms or the general public act like this towards him, i know these ppl don't actually think he's a bad actor because they're first to compliment him when he does something in favor of their ship. I've personally always preferred Byler but i am not going to pretend Finn loses his acting abilities in Milevens scenes or because he's working with Millie just to make myself feel better about the context, if I'm upset about anything in the show i hold the duffers accountable and not the actors which is something I think A LOTTTT of this fandom needs to start doing. And I really don't mind people shipping real celebs as long as it doesn't disturb or impede on their lives but it really seems like most of the ST fandom WANTS their ships to disturb the actors and It’s so odd. (none of this is directed @ you or your blog btw! This seems to be a twitter and Instagram problem for the most part)