Thinking of trines and gestalts as a soulmate thing. Sometimes you're created together, but when you're not you feel as though a part of you is missing. Like it feels as though there's parts missing from your spark. You find yourself coming across and stranger and you're being pulled towards them. And you know you are supposed to be with them. Not romantically (though that's an option) but in a way non seekers/combiners will never understand. For the first time ever your spark no longer aches with a longing you couldn't understand (or at least not as bad. You still need to find the others)
Then they turn out to be the biggest asshole you've ever met, and you realise you're stuck with them regardless










